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Bill/Ellis/Frida, 25 y.o.
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Then don't bother.
If you're considering a reletionship with him, wouldn't you prefer to date a man that does not demonstrate that behavior in general? Someone who has a different nature entirely?
I don't know, man. Everybody's got a “one that got away.” Really not that big of a deal. I'm sure there are plenty of people in the world that you're attracted to, emotionally and or physically. Doesn't mean you don't love your wife.
I'd be real careful about the road you're starting down. Telling somebody they can't see an old flame is pretty weak and possessive. Telling someone they can't see an old flame that they never even slept with is… a choice.
I'm not saying you're wrong. But you're asking for advice on Reddit. This is mine. You might be starting on a road you don't want to go down. Forbidding her from doing things could backfire on ya is a real, real big way.
Shoot your shot, you may need to nip it in the bud with the bestie if he does infact like you aswell.
Buying a house when you are still at a transitional stage in your life would be potentially irresponsible. Buying a house with someone you aren't on the same page as, in terms of how your life needs to look right now, would definitely be irresponsible. If you are happy to graft a bit longer, living in a place where you are happy, to get a place where you feel confident enough to make that move, do it. I'm not convinced your gf is interested in you as she is in the lifestyle she wants you to buy her.
You're only ever responsible for your own actions. No way to control the actions of someone else.
Break up and let a close friend or family member of hers know what's going on. That way people know that she's going to need some observation, and that she's threatened to commit suicide. Close friend is a better call if her family is unaware of the mental health stuff.
Do what you can, but you have 0 control in this situation. You'll have to let the chips fall where they may.
Thank you, I’m seeking treatment as I have an appointment with my dr booked so hopefully I can have a referral for counselling/therapy. What should I do with regards to any kind of friendship with him? Because I fear that I will push him away even as a friend because of my anxiety and I do not want to do that
Yeah bro you’re already a single mom. Call the lawyer. You don’t have to hire them just gather information. Talk to hubby dearest that you need more help. If he ignores and complains some more just be done with him it’s not worth the stress. You have a baby to care for which should be your focus. So very sorry.
It will make you think what else she has chosen to hide.
It might, but real people don't have piles of shit to hide. It's perfectly normal to have one thing you've done that you don't really want to, or know how to, talk about.
Being open and honest up front is mandatory for a relationship to succeed long term.
No it isn't. What is mandatory is being able to work through any of the shit that comes up. You can front load it all, but that's not a requirement.
consider the example where OP wasn't ok with it
The advice would have been completely different in that case.
Our perspective and advice on this sub shouldn't be hypocritical.
It's not hypocritical. It's nuanced.
LOL you didn't make it sound like you lived together- that makes the whole scenario that much weirder as to why he would be so very hot pressed for you to pay when he is already going with or without you. He is being irrational and you should call him out on it.
Sorry, I meant, why don't you text with him around while talking to him how much it means to you because he doesn't understand that you need friends, your relationship will never progress because of his insecurities.