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Bitty&TheBeast ?, 22 y.o.
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Date: October 7, 2022
Bitty&TheBeast ?, 22 y.o.
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She can’t put you as the father without information from you.
Sever completely
Based on your comments about what you left out of your post, it sounds like your family has every right to feel the way they do.
Your BF does not respect other people's time.. he left marks on you that you proudly showed off in your bathing suit. He puts you down. He puts others down. I hope he has some redeeming qualities.
Cut him loose and go find someone who raises you up instead of tearing you down.
If you say that simply based on the age difference… you would also have to look in the mirror and consider that your boyfriend is a creep for the significant age difference
I wouldn't respond. Block her account, because it's possible it's him and he's using her account to try to get you to talk to him. I bet he's been stalking you via SM. Lock down all your accounts.
Why would she contact you of all people? She didn't believe you and was nasty. She can talk to her friends and family. She can Google DV hotlines in her area.
If the relationship was recorded with Hr I would say yes. Just go and make an official preemptive statement. It’s not a a report and won’t get him in trouble but you just want to set leave this on the record
Does he have wind chimes.. there?
Thankyou so much. Really appreciate the advice ♥️
You should be deep cleaning more often. Do you only scrub your toilets once a month? Are you just going to eat fast food all day every day for the rest of your life? Maybe for now you’re just working part time but are you never going to contribute to your living expenses like rent, food, utilities, etc?
She’s 100% responsible for your insecurity. She has a history of cheating and then asked if it’s ok for her to cheat. Her gaslighting you is a red flag: her a back bone and some self respect and dump her
You broke the bro code
You don't need our or anyone else's approval to end your relationship. You do what you think is best.
Then you have that to look forward to. Having your mom back in your life (seeing that those nasty things she said about him maybe weren’t completely wrong)
And why did you lose your friends? Did he not want you to hang around them?
In any case, leaving this garbage boyfriend would mean that you would have friends again. That’s a win-win.
He is 25 years old supposedly living with his parents, but doesn’t introduce you because he’s not ‘close’ with them….repeating that he’s 25 and lives with them, but isn’t close with them. Honey…come ON.
You miss the person you thought he was. He doesn’t exist
I lied because I was afraid of what my wife would say; we have had many issues throughout our relationship of me leaving it details because I don't want to justify them
This is definitely something to work on. Face the very hot conversations and practice proactive transparency because conflict delayed is conflict amplified. If you can practice being honest without being asked, it'll help regulate your body and desensitize yourself to the stress you likely feel when owning up to something that might cause your wife to ask questions. The more you can face things head on through your own choice, the less stressed out these conversations will make you feel.
I'm a coward and she's very strong willed so if she disagrees with something I do I will very likely cave and not do it again
Sounds like you'd also benefit from working on boundaries and some assertiveness training. My ex was one of these “strong willed” people to put it kindly (mixed with very narcissistic tendencies), so I had to learn to push back and advocate for myself, even when that was challenging and uncomfortable and led to conflict.
If you have developed the dynamic with your wife where she calls the shots and you acquiesce, it'll take some time to change that but it's not impossible. Just takes consistency on your end.
Lastly, be careful with this. Sometimes when couples seek to correct asymmetrical dynamics, they can shift too far into the other modality and end up becoming overly defiant and uncooperative because they have yet to learn balance or they want to feel the power their partner had/has.
So pick your battles and practice asserting boundaries while also being attentive to her needs and feelings.
As for the friend, if you and your wife are struggling with emotional intimacy, it may be a good idea to not pick this battle for now and focus on your marriage. Keep your friendship on the back-burner and let your friend know that you need to make your wife a priority. Your friend would reasonably feel like a huge threat to the relationship from your wife's perspective.
And don't lie again. As mentioned, practice proactive transparency. Omitting the details of who you're with may seem small in your head but those can really rupture trust, especially when things are already rocky.
That’s part of the problem she honestly doesn’t see anything wrong with the situation. She’s adamant noting ever happened. And I think she became friends with the wife out of some kind of guilt.
No one else is picking up on this – but – at 6 months post partum, sex should not be painful, at least not from giving birth. And this is an abnormally long time for a husband to wait for sex.
I'm just saying this is no picnic for the husband either – it's okay to break up if that's what you have to do, but get some clarity on the sex thing. Maybe visit your doctor about it?
Since this is a sub for requesting advice – mine to you is when you talk to your spouse about this try not to sound so much like you despise her.
Maybe she was paying him for sex
I asked him if he was offered an amazing opportunity for work and it required him to relocate would he do it and leave me? And he said no, but of course I don’t know that , he could just be saying that…
I'd call dad and offer to take the test. He already thinks you're not his so you have nothing to lose.