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Your relationship is over bro. There’s not a whole lot you can do here but pick up the pieces and move on. You and her grow apart and that is okay. You’re going to be okay. It’s going to hurt and you need to cherish the good times you had and mourn this loss. Visions for life can differ, especially when in relationships at younger ages.
My suggestion is to handle this with grace. It’s unfair how she treated you, but you now have the blessing of being able to put the energy you were giving to her into yourself and propel yourself further in achieving your hopes and dreams. Best wishes bro.
I just think if you’re inviting someone over that I’ve verbalized being uncomfortable with you would tell me who is going to be at your apartment. I communicate openly who I hang out with.
Maybe it’s just me but I don’t see this as a healthy relationship for a few reasons.
She’s added to her schooling (which is well within her rights to do, nothing against that), but it doesn’t seem like you’re prepared to postpone whatever life plan you had with her to accommodate this. Are you willing to wait for another 7/8 years?
She expects you to “do whatever it takes” for her to sleep over as much as possible? To give her a bed and a ride every day for the next seven years or so while you’re supposed to be working? You’d be ruining your work ethic by leaving to chauffeur her around. Why can’t she drive herself? Why can’t she stay wherever she officially lives during the week and stay with you on the weekends? This just doesn’t seem like a good arrangement at all. No, moving her in shouldn’t be an option either.
She threatens to break up during arguments? That is NOT a freaking joke thing to say when arguing! Don’t say it if you don’t mean it. This may be a manipulation tactic to get you to do what she wants or agree with her about something. “If you don’t agree, I’ll break up with you.” Nobody needs that threat hanging over them. She wants you to promise not to bring up breaking up? SHE should make that promise as well. And she’s even picking fights over nothing and doesn’t know why? One word for that: THERAPY.
Honestly, I’d be rethinking this relationship because of those reasons alone. Her attachment to you shouldn’t be an issue for you to be concerned about. That’s a her problem, not a you problem.
I’d say to think about what it is you want from this relationship and out of life. If she’s to be a part of it, then you need to talk to her about what the plan will be and then you both need to work for it together. Possibly get some couples therapy to give you tools to learn how to communicate and problem solve to give you a better chance long term.
I wish you luck and I hope it all works out for the best for you.
You will be SO much happier with this man out of your life. And truthfully, he’ll be better off too. You are both WAY too comfortable with cheating and treating people badly.
Block him for good, don’t let him come back. Yes, you are a doormat. Stop being one. You’re making each other’s lives worse, stop it.
I'm literally pro choice and I think you're an asshole acting like she's doing something wrong by not aborting. It's her choice its not her baby trapping him Jesus christ
Insecurity in a partner, and trying to hold him back because of it, will drive a partner away much faster and more reliably than whatever disparity in attractiveness is making you feel that way.
Your relationship is over bro. There’s not a whole lot you can do here but pick up the pieces and move on. You and her grow apart and that is okay. You’re going to be okay. It’s going to hurt and you need to cherish the good times you had and mourn this loss. Visions for life can differ, especially when in relationships at younger ages.
My suggestion is to handle this with grace. It’s unfair how she treated you, but you now have the blessing of being able to put the energy you were giving to her into yourself and propel yourself further in achieving your hopes and dreams. Best wishes bro.
So what? You had a fling. So what? That had nothing to do with him or his family.
I just think if you’re inviting someone over that I’ve verbalized being uncomfortable with you would tell me who is going to be at your apartment. I communicate openly who I hang out with.
Maybe it’s just me but I don’t see this as a healthy relationship for a few reasons.
She’s added to her schooling (which is well within her rights to do, nothing against that), but it doesn’t seem like you’re prepared to postpone whatever life plan you had with her to accommodate this. Are you willing to wait for another 7/8 years?
She expects you to “do whatever it takes” for her to sleep over as much as possible? To give her a bed and a ride every day for the next seven years or so while you’re supposed to be working? You’d be ruining your work ethic by leaving to chauffeur her around. Why can’t she drive herself? Why can’t she stay wherever she officially lives during the week and stay with you on the weekends? This just doesn’t seem like a good arrangement at all. No, moving her in shouldn’t be an option either.
She threatens to break up during arguments? That is NOT a freaking joke thing to say when arguing! Don’t say it if you don’t mean it. This may be a manipulation tactic to get you to do what she wants or agree with her about something. “If you don’t agree, I’ll break up with you.” Nobody needs that threat hanging over them. She wants you to promise not to bring up breaking up? SHE should make that promise as well. And she’s even picking fights over nothing and doesn’t know why? One word for that: THERAPY.
Honestly, I’d be rethinking this relationship because of those reasons alone. Her attachment to you shouldn’t be an issue for you to be concerned about. That’s a her problem, not a you problem.
I’d say to think about what it is you want from this relationship and out of life. If she’s to be a part of it, then you need to talk to her about what the plan will be and then you both need to work for it together. Possibly get some couples therapy to give you tools to learn how to communicate and problem solve to give you a better chance long term.
I wish you luck and I hope it all works out for the best for you.
You will be SO much happier with this man out of your life. And truthfully, he’ll be better off too. You are both WAY too comfortable with cheating and treating people badly.
Block him for good, don’t let him come back. Yes, you are a doormat. Stop being one. You’re making each other’s lives worse, stop it.
Yeah, was it “Attaboy!” or “Sucks to be you”?
I'm literally pro choice and I think you're an asshole acting like she's doing something wrong by not aborting. It's her choice its not her baby trapping him Jesus christ
Insecurity in a partner, and trying to hold him back because of it, will drive a partner away much faster and more reliably than whatever disparity in attractiveness is making you feel that way.
Run. Get away from him
Very best wishes to you both.