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Live! Live Sex Chat rooms Bonnie (, ´｡• ᵕ •｡) ♡ | 1-2 AM to 7-8 AM (UTC -4) I stream very randomly so subscribe and turn on notification 🙂
Date: October 7, 2022
But if they stop posting this sub would die! It needs predatory old men and young inexperienced women who think they’re mature for their age to thrive.
There is no help. This is just one of those awkward teenage lessons. Don't have sex where anyone can walk in on you. Just learn your lesson and don't end up hiding in somebodies closet for 2 hours when their parents come home unexpectedly.
Yes you're parents are going to most likely find and you will have to face the consequences of your actions (you snuck out too didn't you?). But having sex is an adult activity so you have to be grown enough to face the music. This will not be a fun easy conversation, better practice saying sex and birth control to your dad. And try to remain calm, try not cry or scream at the punishment or his harsh words, you're trying to prove your adult enough to make these kind of decisions about you're body act like one.
Lastly for the safe sex bit, just because you are so young and there is so much schools don't teach. You need a new condom for each round of sex. Dispose of condoms immediately, don't throw it on the foot of the bed. Any urban legend you hear claiming to be an at home birth control is shit. Condoms DO break, make sure whatever guy your with you trust enough to stop and tell you. Condoms DO break, use a second form of birth control. Do not stop using condoms when you start a second form of birth control. STDs can be for life and symptoms can take years to show and at your age none of y'all have been having sex long enough or are aware enough to be taking these chances. Antibiotics and alcohol can affect birth control. And make sure his nails are clean before any second basing.
Yeah tell her now. Best to find out now if its a deal breaker. She might not care at all. She might want to join in next time.
That's why I decided to pull back. I felt like all they want is someone to text them good morning and to keep around. It doesn't matter if it's me or someone else
Thank you, I really appreciate this comment
For sure trolling. Check his comments and post history. Says he's 4.5 on another post but now he's 7? Sureeeeeeee
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Regardless of culture you are definitely the other man, and she has no plans to change that. You say she isn't happy and that she has fallen for you, but all that means is now you are living around her boyfriend just like she is.
Because you have an armchair degree in semantics and lack self-awareness?
I don't know. Given your comments, you're either not gifted mentally or think that your girlfriend is lacking in that department…
Don't know what's worse for your poor girl.
He picked that fight on purpose.
My understanding is that he did have sex with men but never relationships. I’m not sure if he was truly gay (although I did believe he was, and I didn’t mind) but if he is he never came out to his family/friends. I personally think that he used it as an excuse to end our two year relationship. Because we broke up because of his sexuality we ended on “good terms”. How could I be angry at him for something out of his control, you know? So we remained friends. I was awfully surprised to see on FB that he was married to a girl a few months after I’d helped him in a really tight spot.
It’s also worth noting that when I was 18 I inherited a great sum of money and he knew about this fact. He BURNED through my money, using the justification that “what’s mine is yours”. It was a whirlwind of bad decisions. Man, I was so naive.
For example: I’m absolutely sure when I have a baby my MIL will want to help me, but my MIL as absolutely crazy about schedules that don’t work for others besides herself. If she came to “help” me out, she would end up stressing me even more. This doesn’t mean she’d do it on purpose on that she is a bad person, just that it would add stress to an already stressful situation.
If mom and MIL expect OP and nanny to act as of they are just visiting, they could be making the whole situation much worse. If they are “supervising” OP, they could also be just stressing her out with their judgement. If they only help when they want and it isn’t consistent this means OP can’t trust them and this could stress her more.
Each one of them could be caring for the baby for only six hours. This is less than most of us work daily (most work 8-9 hours). They’d get 18 hours for themselves. That’s a lot better than most of us have it. More than OP have.
I’ll say again: investigate how mom and MIL are “helping”. Something isn’t adding up at all.
Oh honey… This is an unfortunate circumstance. But your husband is not a good person. Him saying someone half his age was a big indication when you first got together.
Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. Sure you can chalk this up as upholding a boundary…but c’mon dude. Your suppose to be her boyfriend not her fucking dad. If your sick girlfriend wants cuddles and comfort and your not missing work or a special event to hang with her then “No, because I said so” is an absolute piss poor excuse. You sound like a judgmental dick dude, who the fuck makes their SO feel inconvenienced for wanting them to do SO things. If you couldn’t even do this minor thing for her then I’d say she’s the one who dodged a bullet. Apologize if you get the chance and leave her alone. The fact you didn’t even take her serious at the time speaks volumes.
If he is dealing drugs, you can call the police and he will be arrested if they find drugs in his possession. She is young and naive and he is either love bombing her or threatening her to keep her with him. If he spends even a couple of days in jail, you and her family can intervene and talk to her. Hopefully he will spend more time in jail than that. His record should be on the internet and you can just look it up. But if it it isn’t his real name, it won’t be there but if he is arrested for drugs, the police will know by his fingerprints.
19 is old enough to know not to cheat on your significant other. Why do y'all treat someone at that age like a child who has no control over his or her actions? All that says about you is you either cheated or accepted cheating from your partner.
Is there a chance that he was already cheating and the proposal would just make life easier for him?
Only you can truly answer this.
Most people can not deal with long distance.
It truly all depends on what you both want and need out of a relationship.
Do you need to be touching and held and see each other? Does she? Well, you do not get any of that from long distance. This means you would have to change your whole mindset on what you want from a relationship.
I will say that long distance doesn't work. They are not real relationships. But yes. You will get people who say it's the best relationship.
So you have to think for yourself here. Can you go days or weeks without touching or kissing or sex or seeing her in person?
Good luck.
I think you might have to explain where woop woop is for the non Australians of the subreddit
Why would you be with someone who needs to “test her willpower”? That is some BS. Be with someone who doesn’t feel the need to test your relationship with infidelity.
To be clear, it doesn’t matter if she actually has sex with him or not on this cruise. She already decided that your feelings don’t matter. She already decided she would rather spend time with him than you. People in healthy relationships don’t need to “test” them. She already “tested” the relationship by continuing to be friends with a guy who openly wants to sleep with her. She already “tested” the relationship by prioritizing someone over you. This isn’t about him, it’s about her, and the fact that she does not value your relationship.
I guess I shouldn’t be surprised that kind of misinformation is spreading, but I haven’t personally run into it.
Obviously meds are not natural, but that doesn’t mean they aren’t a net good for society. I would refute anybody who tried to argue birth control (or any other med/vax) isn’t safe or helpful in the circumstances in which it’s prescribed.
Cycle tracking is definitely not reliable enough to use as a stand alone method. And if anybody here is thinking the pull out method works- it doesn’t. For the record.
Oh jeez. I understand you trying to talk to her, but telling her that you don't find her attractive is brutal.
I totally agree with you that her friends are not helping the situation, because of course they will tell her that she is perfect as she is and you are the problem.
Does she want to lose weight? It is troubling to me that she won't discuss it with the therapist.
He wants a break to cheat on you. Tell him you won’t be here when he gets back!! Or that you will consider resuming your relationship when he gets back and then tell him when he gets back to F off.
If you are with someone you truly love and they start to completely let themselves go – no showering, filthy unkept hair, stinky feet & breath – wouldn't you mind? After all, they are still the same person underneath the filth – so you should still feel love and attraction for them, right?
That’s very disrespectful. You should be explicit about that being a hot boundary.
You hid that you were going out and did not tell her someone was sleeping over. She walked in and saw some woman’s sleeping on the couch. You also admit you do stupid things when drunk.
I wouldn’t trust you either. You need to stop drinking so much. This is going to ruin your relationship if it somehow survives this and will eventually affect other parts of your life.
I won't repeat what MainSky said so well. I will add that if you want to try to save your marriage, you need to put your foot down nude right now, and he must have consequences for his actions. Currently, you are doing what amounts to rug sweeping and makes you an enabler that reaps what is sown. Take control of the situation. I suggest seeing a lawyer draw up a divorce document plus a post nuptial agreement with very severe penalties for both physical and emotional infidelity. Both should be spelled out with the current AP named and that any form of communication (sent or received) would be considered emotional cheating. Make certified copies. When your husband is at work, on a Friday, put copies of each on the kitchen table. Leave a note that says, “Choose,” along with your wedding rings on top of the note. Pack up the kids and go away until Sunday late afternoon. Do not respond to any of his efforts to contact you. When you return, ignore him. Let him come to you and see what he says. If he agrees to the post-nuptial, great. If he tries to talk you out of both, tell him that by default, he is choosing her, and you will have him served Monday. He would not expect this and most likely agree to your demands. If, by the rare chance he chooses divorce, he was already lost to you. Assuming he chooses you, he must call her on speaker phone in front of her and tell her that their relationship is having a significantly negative impact on your marriage and that they must immediately end the relationship and go “no contact”. Then, let him know if there is even one slip, you will end it. If you wanted, you could do all the same without seeing a lawyer and the documents. But it may be in your best interest to see what a divorce looks like.
Noooooope. Nope. Nope. Nope. See ya.