Well the thing is your girlfriend knows exactly what she was taking about and won't tell you that right there isn't cool at all if she plans on being with you through the long haul she should be up front and open to tell you everything, she will have a hell of a time if you 2 ever get married bc after that there's pretty much no privacy if you don't trust each other enough to name able to look at her phone laptop and same with you if she fells something's off she can just grab your phone or laptop what ever to put yours of hers at ease that's just marriage and if you don't have trust you don't have shit . But your girlfriend knows exactly what she said don't let her shit you . My ex wife had a friend just like that a snobby bitch I couldn't believe my wife was friends with her I heard her talking shit about saying she needed to get rid of me and get a real guy to take care of her all this crap the funny thing is this chick. Never really even knew who I was as a person I went to college when I was 16 finished by 20 and had plans to start my own business which o did . Well long story short that woman hooked my wife up with some fucking guy and they ended up sleeping together for what I found out later for 5 months I caught my wife sneaking into the house at 5 am on her birthday she should have been home from work at 12:30 am the latest we only lived like 10 minutes from her job . I kicked her ass to the curb almost went to jail she was in the fog wouldn't gind me the time of fking day
I appreciate that. I know it’s seems obvious I should just break up with him, but there’s a lot of details in the story that aren’t there that may also factor in this situation. It’s more complicated then it seems, I love him, and I’ve never caught him in a lie. I do really believe he is a truthful person and he did show remorse and regret after the fact. I think I’m just upset at the fact it seems he can’t establish boundaries with this girl and how to handle that when I talk to him.
That's still on him, not on his gf.
Well the thing is your girlfriend knows exactly what she was taking about and won't tell you that right there isn't cool at all if she plans on being with you through the long haul she should be up front and open to tell you everything, she will have a hell of a time if you 2 ever get married bc after that there's pretty much no privacy if you don't trust each other enough to name able to look at her phone laptop and same with you if she fells something's off she can just grab your phone or laptop what ever to put yours of hers at ease that's just marriage and if you don't have trust you don't have shit . But your girlfriend knows exactly what she said don't let her shit you . My ex wife had a friend just like that a snobby bitch I couldn't believe my wife was friends with her I heard her talking shit about saying she needed to get rid of me and get a real guy to take care of her all this crap the funny thing is this chick. Never really even knew who I was as a person I went to college when I was 16 finished by 20 and had plans to start my own business which o did . Well long story short that woman hooked my wife up with some fucking guy and they ended up sleeping together for what I found out later for 5 months I caught my wife sneaking into the house at 5 am on her birthday she should have been home from work at 12:30 am the latest we only lived like 10 minutes from her job . I kicked her ass to the curb almost went to jail she was in the fog wouldn't gind me the time of fking day
I appreciate that. I know it’s seems obvious I should just break up with him, but there’s a lot of details in the story that aren’t there that may also factor in this situation. It’s more complicated then it seems, I love him, and I’ve never caught him in a lie. I do really believe he is a truthful person and he did show remorse and regret after the fact. I think I’m just upset at the fact it seems he can’t establish boundaries with this girl and how to handle that when I talk to him.
Sorry but that is psychopath scary. My boyfriend would never in a million years raise a hand on my family. He would just take me away.