Surgery does have some risk. If you have two kids, it is worth stopping to consider those risks. When you go in for surgery to get your appendix out, you know you need to have the surgery so you don't need to stop to consider the risk.
But just because you have a selfish boyfriend who is very appearance oriented?
I would not consider risking my life and my health of potential side effects and financial aspects of those side effects like extra time off work for an infection or complication that complicates my career or taking care of my children later.
Why would you want to be with someone who made you do everything, didn't acknowledge your special day, doesn't want kids, and all the things you do want?
Think maybe you are just lonely? I mean he doesn't sound at all like a good fit for you.
Don’t follow through with the marriage!! At least till y’all figure each other out
What a nightmare
Surgery does have some risk. If you have two kids, it is worth stopping to consider those risks. When you go in for surgery to get your appendix out, you know you need to have the surgery so you don't need to stop to consider the risk.
But just because you have a selfish boyfriend who is very appearance oriented?
I would not consider risking my life and my health of potential side effects and financial aspects of those side effects like extra time off work for an infection or complication that complicates my career or taking care of my children later.
I dunno OP, what is the common denominator here?
“every time we get drunk / fight at parties when we are drunk / go in a fight whilst drinking…”
Huh. IT IS A MYSTERY I TELL YOU.
Why would you want to be with someone who made you do everything, didn't acknowledge your special day, doesn't want kids, and all the things you do want?
Think maybe you are just lonely? I mean he doesn't sound at all like a good fit for you.
It sounds like she has ADD. Medication might help
thanks for commenting