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Having boundaries with affection is one thing, but this sounds excessive and unhealthy.
Because it hasn’t been long I’ve been married and I’m hoping there’s some sort of way to fix things
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He sounds (and I could be wrong) like he has narcissistic tendencies. If so, he will most likely argue back why you’re wrong, try and belittle your husbands feelings, twist the story, make you feel bad for him etc. Went through similar thing (not SA) with my boyfriend’s narcissistic best friend and we’ve missed full on parties, events, outings to avoid him. Also beloved, popular, wanted at events? I’m so sorry y’all are going through this, but the peace to not see him is worth any sacrifice of outings and a loss of a “friend” (a true friend wouldn’t do that no matter how intoxicated tho imo)
Or even younger. Shit I’m 21 and I think 18 year olds are babies. They’re still in high school for fucks sake. I’m so different from my 18 year old self and that only increases exponentially as you get older. Like holy shit. I feel so bad for OP and I hope she leaves him
Man I need to like light some incense and make a prayer I have yet to meet someone as unhinged as this.
nothing about her bodily autonomy was violated when he masturbated. he didn't use her body, he didn't use any pictures of her. and he wasn't turned on by the fact she was drunk, he was turned on by her wanting him. if you don't want to be any more of a jerk than you already are, you need to understand why you're wrong and apologize to your poor boyfriend
I appreciate all of the comments, advice, etc, even if they are negative. I am really trying to have an open mind & try to see all sides. I know that my post did not have a lot of info on specific incidents. I don't want to keep going over all of the he said/she said. I feel like I have been doing that for 11 years. Some of you gave some really good advice. I have told him that I think we should separate in the past, even just for a few weeks, and do some individual counseling sessions. He did not want to do that. I think we both need help. And we have never communicated well. That was why I wanted to go to counseling 6 years ago. He has never been diagnosed but multiple members of his immediate family are bipolar & I believe he is too. I have been diagnosed with major depressive disorder. So we definitely both have our own Demons to deal with too. We got married for the wrong reasons. At least I did. I got a new job & they did not cover domestic partners on health insurance. So that was a big factor in my decision. He was having a lot of health issues & right after we got married he stopped working for several months. The kids are also a big reason. Their mother is not in their lives at all anymore and I have always been the one who protects them when their dad would get really mad. He was harder on our son than our daughter, but I would put a stop to things when they escalated. He told me recently that he feels like he can't live without me & that makes me feel like I have to stay. He has said if I leave & don't take the dog that he'll put him in the pound. I don't know if he means it or not but our dog was his first. But he is my baby since I work from home & am with him 24/7. In addition, he is only working part time & cannot afford to take care of the kids on his own. So I feel very obligated to stay. A lot of things have been said by both of us. 11 years is a long time. It's not that I don't want him to tell me how he feels about incidents but I feel like these are things we have talked about repeatedly. Not just once & I apologized. It is hot to listen to it over & over again. I feel like instead of all of these incidents, talk about the bigger issue – why it upset you, how it made you feel & how we can improve it. I am willing to do that. We were talking a few days a week & setting a time limit as well as telling each other our topic in advance. That way it was easier to approach without being defensive & prepared for the topic. I thought that was working, at least for him, but I did not have so many topics I felt I needed to discuss because I have been trying to let go of those things. Again, thank you all for your perspectives as well.
You said you hear from her a couple of hours a day. How much more do you want?
Stalked? You are tripping!
The only thing OP did wrong was not looking him up BEFORE she ever hung out with him.
You’re not getting it. You’re cheating. I hope your current girlfriend finds out and makes the decision for you. She leaves.
What is clear is that you haven’t put this behind you. He was with 2 other women during your relationship. He isn’t taking accountability. Come on. You broke up and within a week he’s with her? You have chosen a liar, a cheater and a man who won’t take accountability for his actions. Good luck with that.
I didn't get anesthesia but hell I drove myself home afterwards and went to my brother's baseball game
Yeah its sad but this relationship doesn’t really seem to exist. Like if 6 years has passed and they are not even living together.
Don;t cyber stalk the guy. You are broken up. let it go…if you need answers ask him. It didn't work out the first time, it wont work out the second, so just ask for the closure sake you need. Don't be surprised if he balks about talking about it. Some people are in bad denial or just really in the closet out of fear and shame(sadly).