There’s a world of difference between thinking that your partner will cheat on you the moment you let them out of your sight and thinking that they might be tempted to cheat on you while on vacation with their exclusively single friends. Conflating the two is disingenuous.
Yes, I know, own a house (paid) & townhouse (3/4 paid, still paying monthly mortgage). You are missing my point.
Loan companies typically require at least a particular % down payment in order to fund the rest of the mortgage. OP said in their area, it was 20%.
The OP never talks about needing over/above the $300,000 (additional $150,000 Brother’s money) to lower the monthly mortgage payments. That makes me wonder if the OP is contributing any of the money for the down payment, that it is just the Fiancé & Brother’s money to be used.
No, he’s pretty spiritual for the most part but definitely not religious
There’s a world of difference between thinking that your partner will cheat on you the moment you let them out of your sight and thinking that they might be tempted to cheat on you while on vacation with their exclusively single friends. Conflating the two is disingenuous.
Yes, I know, own a house (paid) & townhouse (3/4 paid, still paying monthly mortgage). You are missing my point.
Loan companies typically require at least a particular % down payment in order to fund the rest of the mortgage. OP said in their area, it was 20%.
The OP never talks about needing over/above the $300,000 (additional $150,000 Brother’s money) to lower the monthly mortgage payments. That makes me wonder if the OP is contributing any of the money for the down payment, that it is just the Fiancé & Brother’s money to be used.