Your husband is gross. That's the problem here. It's not his fault he had a kid he didn't know about before he met you. But the fact he was having sex with a literal teenager in his 30s is foul.
You could just say, “I know it's early but we've been together for half a year so I think it's worth discussing our longterm goals”. To be fair, this is something that should have happened already. Then just tell him that you see yourself having a family in the future and you're wondering if he's on the same page. The reason to date people is to find out if you have shared goals so it's not like it's rude to ask these questions. All people have to know if they're in a relationship that has any potential. Because if it doesn't and if you're not just dating for fun you need to move on so you don't waste your time with someone you can never be truly happy with.
Honestly she should've shot it down after the first kiss dancing with someone of the opposite gender is fine but I wouldn't expect my partner to just lie in wait while another man's trying to kiss me I'd shoot it down the first attempt myself though
Firstly. Showering after sex does nothing to prevent pregnancy. I hope those condoms don't break.
Secondly..you need to consider if you are willing to spend the rest of your life tied to this adult child whether in a relationship or co-parenting.
I would not.
Set your boundaries. With no room to overstep…and take the pill. Your hormones will go back to normal after about 3 months. I don't think 3 months is too very hot to endure for peace of mind
If he looked away after a couple of mountains I’d say he’s probably interested, that’s a long time to be holding eye contact
Ive told her she doesn't have to do this alone, but she's said she's prepared to. It's a shitty place for her, but it's her own choice.
Your husband is gross. That's the problem here. It's not his fault he had a kid he didn't know about before he met you. But the fact he was having sex with a literal teenager in his 30s is foul.
Sounds like she's projecting onto them.
You could just say, “I know it's early but we've been together for half a year so I think it's worth discussing our longterm goals”. To be fair, this is something that should have happened already. Then just tell him that you see yourself having a family in the future and you're wondering if he's on the same page. The reason to date people is to find out if you have shared goals so it's not like it's rude to ask these questions. All people have to know if they're in a relationship that has any potential. Because if it doesn't and if you're not just dating for fun you need to move on so you don't waste your time with someone you can never be truly happy with.
Honestly she should've shot it down after the first kiss dancing with someone of the opposite gender is fine but I wouldn't expect my partner to just lie in wait while another man's trying to kiss me I'd shoot it down the first attempt myself though
Firstly. Showering after sex does nothing to prevent pregnancy. I hope those condoms don't break.
Secondly..you need to consider if you are willing to spend the rest of your life tied to this adult child whether in a relationship or co-parenting.
I would not.
Set your boundaries. With no room to overstep…and take the pill. Your hormones will go back to normal after about 3 months. I don't think 3 months is too very hot to endure for peace of mind
You broke it.
You really should have just broken up, it would have been much kinder.
Just finish this relationship off and start again. If you REALLY want to hurt him, move straight onto the guy you cheated on him with.