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Take the hint bro, she’s not so keen on the idea right now, +if u keep pushing you’ll lose her. Sorry about your Dad, but that shouldn’t have anything bearing on this
Your children need better role models than you are right now. Do you want them to grow up thinking they should accept being cheated on? Do you want them to think they should cheat on their future partners? How about with how you’re being treated? You want them to think all of this is normal? Girl set a better example for your children by loving and respecting yourself.
I'm so sorry my response hurt you but I know what it's like to be in the middle of an unhealthy family. You and your brother can become a loving little family of your own. Your mom needs to earn her way back to you two, not the other way around. You already have the loyalty and love of each other so you are starting from a very good foundation. Wishing you the best.
IMO regularly showing up hours late with no notice and while remaining intentionally unreachable is not a minor fault, it's a major sign of disrespect. Would you ever do that to him? If not, why not?
You went out with your friends leaving her to care for 3 babies/toddlers, even though she asked you not to go. You went anyway.
Now, the kids are older, more self-sufficient; they don’t need 1:1 attention. She has new friends, perhaps she’s ready for some adult time after a decade of child bearing/raising. She is taking the opportunity to go out with her friends, just like you did a decade ago with your friends.
Going out isn’t the problem. It’s resentment and lack of cooperation. You don’t seem to be able to address relationship issues in a way that you both feel good about.
Lol the Asian chick who exclusively only dates white dudes. Met too many of those types. They are kinda wack tbh…ain’t nothing wrong w liking white dudes just being all exclusive like that and stating it makes you look stupid.
i have i have fucking broke up w him multiple damn times he’s the one who kept coming back and begging for me back on his knees getting me flowers movie tickets treating me out telling me HE’LL DO BETTER. i literally online in his house on the third floor w only stairs, it’s fucking very hot moving out and i’ve moved out multiple fucking times but he keeps begging me back and then does this fuck shit . now he’s blaming me for giving him too much stress and tasks and that i shouldn’t be mad he starved my cat after fucking surgery
Having a “difficult childhood” might be a mitigating factor in a criminal sentencing hearing but it doesn't obligate the victims of a crime to forgive the perpetrator. This person didn't even steal from some anonymous store or something, she violated the sacred trust your family invested in her by allowing her into their home, almost certainly knowing she'd be caught. Meaning this wasn't just a matter of her envy or greed but rather an act of self destruction. So unless she's willing to start therapy to reverse her desire to ruin her relationships things like this are likely to happen again and again. That should be the line you draw in terms of willingness to take her back. But also don't expect your family to just get over it. They're probably never going to fully trust her and that's something you'll have to consider if you move forward with her.
Why would you confess? I understand you feel guilty. But aside from you clearing your conscience, what good would it do? This might be an odd take but telling him seems very selfish to me. Sure, you get the catharsis you appear to be seeking but at what cost? If you feel guilty, feel guilty. But don't ruin your husband's life in the proces. As others stated here: start dating your husband again. You'll both benefit from that far more than from dropping a bomb on your marriage.
You were “enforcing” a boundary and then threw a tantrum and trampled all over her boundaries. I'm glad she stood up for herself because you were in the wrong here.
Unless this guy is a model there is a 100% chance that women are not hitting on him 24/7. He sounds like a complete asshole. Why would you want to marry someone that has a constant need to remind you how lucky you are to have him?
My brethren. You are NOT QUALIFIED to fix what is broken here. If you continue to stay then you will fail miserably and disrespect yourself in the process. Training is needed to deal with the level of insecure and fucked up your gf is. Also, you have no experience with a person that is in the state that she is in so your inexperienced ass is definitely worsening her condition. You are not a therapist or a psychologist, you've not even been in a relationship before so i doubt you understand even how to manage or aid such heavy projections. Do the both of you a favor and leave that situation. Anything opposite of leaving is sabotage. Please don't be stupid. She needs professional help.
Everyone's tolerance varies. LSD doesn't put me on the moon till I'm dosing over 10 hits other side of the coin is that I have friends who take one hit and are fucked. Granted I haven't dosed in over a decade but assuming it's actually LSD and not some other drug like the 2C family of designer drugs it can be dramatically different from person to person and batch to batch. Same can be said with booze. Just because some people can handle combining drugs and alcohol does not mean all people can handle combining drugs and alcohol. As I said if he was blacked out it's sexual assault plain and simple.
The only way it would be creepy or weird would be if you were doing it exclusively to bang the girls that are significantly younger, and it would be obviously creepy to them if that were the case so I doubt they'd still be inviting you to hang out if it came across like that. As long as they actually want your company and you're not just inviting yourself and gatecrashing, it's not weird. Age is just a number and if you all get along and have fun, it's completely healthy and you should be going out socialising and having fun after a breakup. After a while you may find that you can't relate to them in quite the same way as people your own age though and that you tire of the partying, so you will likely also end up meeting people more on your wavelength in time.
For now though enjoy and don't overthink it, just have fun!
I would add, at around 4 months people are often starting to develop strong emotions for each other. She may well have been having strong feelings for you in that moment amd wanted some reassuring.
It doesn't have to be a red flag unless it becomes a pattern of behavior.
OP, this might be the time you found out but this was no accident. I mean her mother was in on it. I wonder how often in the past you have had fights that have caused you to stay at your parents for a cooling off period? Time for an STD test and a lawyer.
Take the hint bro, she’s not so keen on the idea right now, +if u keep pushing you’ll lose her. Sorry about your Dad, but that shouldn’t have anything bearing on this
Where did I say our money? I think you might want to read more carefully. We have separate finances and I pay for myself.
Your children need better role models than you are right now. Do you want them to grow up thinking they should accept being cheated on? Do you want them to think they should cheat on their future partners? How about with how you’re being treated? You want them to think all of this is normal? Girl set a better example for your children by loving and respecting yourself.
Moving on and a restraining order doesn’t really jibe well with patching things up.
I'm so sorry my response hurt you but I know what it's like to be in the middle of an unhealthy family. You and your brother can become a loving little family of your own. Your mom needs to earn her way back to you two, not the other way around. You already have the loyalty and love of each other so you are starting from a very good foundation. Wishing you the best.
ahhh? look idk what ur brother did but this + you wanting to beat him with no context of what he’s done is making you look really bad man
Oh yeah she doesn’t deserve anything fancy because two others got fancy proposals
Not every man is a sexual predator. I can assure you there was no grooming involved.
Also, why would he marry me if he was a sexual predator?
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IMO regularly showing up hours late with no notice and while remaining intentionally unreachable is not a minor fault, it's a major sign of disrespect. Would you ever do that to him? If not, why not?
I genuinely think the people who gatekeep the word gaslight are crazy. Why does it matter?
You went out with your friends leaving her to care for 3 babies/toddlers, even though she asked you not to go. You went anyway.
Now, the kids are older, more self-sufficient; they don’t need 1:1 attention. She has new friends, perhaps she’s ready for some adult time after a decade of child bearing/raising. She is taking the opportunity to go out with her friends, just like you did a decade ago with your friends.
Going out isn’t the problem. It’s resentment and lack of cooperation. You don’t seem to be able to address relationship issues in a way that you both feel good about.
Lol the Asian chick who exclusively only dates white dudes. Met too many of those types. They are kinda wack tbh…ain’t nothing wrong w liking white dudes just being all exclusive like that and stating it makes you look stupid.
i have i have fucking broke up w him multiple damn times he’s the one who kept coming back and begging for me back on his knees getting me flowers movie tickets treating me out telling me HE’LL DO BETTER. i literally online in his house on the third floor w only stairs, it’s fucking very hot moving out and i’ve moved out multiple fucking times but he keeps begging me back and then does this fuck shit . now he’s blaming me for giving him too much stress and tasks and that i shouldn’t be mad he starved my cat after fucking surgery
Having a “difficult childhood” might be a mitigating factor in a criminal sentencing hearing but it doesn't obligate the victims of a crime to forgive the perpetrator. This person didn't even steal from some anonymous store or something, she violated the sacred trust your family invested in her by allowing her into their home, almost certainly knowing she'd be caught. Meaning this wasn't just a matter of her envy or greed but rather an act of self destruction. So unless she's willing to start therapy to reverse her desire to ruin her relationships things like this are likely to happen again and again. That should be the line you draw in terms of willingness to take her back. But also don't expect your family to just get over it. They're probably never going to fully trust her and that's something you'll have to consider if you move forward with her.
Red flag, it’s time for him to go.
Why would you confess? I understand you feel guilty. But aside from you clearing your conscience, what good would it do? This might be an odd take but telling him seems very selfish to me. Sure, you get the catharsis you appear to be seeking but at what cost? If you feel guilty, feel guilty. But don't ruin your husband's life in the proces. As others stated here: start dating your husband again. You'll both benefit from that far more than from dropping a bomb on your marriage.
You were “enforcing” a boundary and then threw a tantrum and trampled all over her boundaries. I'm glad she stood up for herself because you were in the wrong here.
Unless this guy is a model there is a 100% chance that women are not hitting on him 24/7. He sounds like a complete asshole. Why would you want to marry someone that has a constant need to remind you how lucky you are to have him?
Hang around for another hour or so and it's quite possible you'll see her again. I can tag you in the next one if you want.
Leave. This is in no way shape or form of love.
My brethren. You are NOT QUALIFIED to fix what is broken here. If you continue to stay then you will fail miserably and disrespect yourself in the process. Training is needed to deal with the level of insecure and fucked up your gf is. Also, you have no experience with a person that is in the state that she is in so your inexperienced ass is definitely worsening her condition. You are not a therapist or a psychologist, you've not even been in a relationship before so i doubt you understand even how to manage or aid such heavy projections. Do the both of you a favor and leave that situation. Anything opposite of leaving is sabotage. Please don't be stupid. She needs professional help.
Seek professional help. Find a therapist near you and work on letting go..
Everyone's tolerance varies. LSD doesn't put me on the moon till I'm dosing over 10 hits other side of the coin is that I have friends who take one hit and are fucked. Granted I haven't dosed in over a decade but assuming it's actually LSD and not some other drug like the 2C family of designer drugs it can be dramatically different from person to person and batch to batch. Same can be said with booze. Just because some people can handle combining drugs and alcohol does not mean all people can handle combining drugs and alcohol. As I said if he was blacked out it's sexual assault plain and simple.
Nope. They trust me or they fuck off.
The only way it would be creepy or weird would be if you were doing it exclusively to bang the girls that are significantly younger, and it would be obviously creepy to them if that were the case so I doubt they'd still be inviting you to hang out if it came across like that. As long as they actually want your company and you're not just inviting yourself and gatecrashing, it's not weird. Age is just a number and if you all get along and have fun, it's completely healthy and you should be going out socialising and having fun after a breakup. After a while you may find that you can't relate to them in quite the same way as people your own age though and that you tire of the partying, so you will likely also end up meeting people more on your wavelength in time.
For now though enjoy and don't overthink it, just have fun!
Thank you
First of all he’s too old. Second what are you 9? Who has enemies past grade school?! Grow up
This is good advice.
I would add, at around 4 months people are often starting to develop strong emotions for each other. She may well have been having strong feelings for you in that moment amd wanted some reassuring.
It doesn't have to be a red flag unless it becomes a pattern of behavior.
There’s your answer.
OP, this might be the time you found out but this was no accident. I mean her mother was in on it. I wonder how often in the past you have had fights that have caused you to stay at your parents for a cooling off period? Time for an STD test and a lawyer.
If he insists on having children in the traditional way and you rule it out then the relationship will soon stop anyway, so.. you know the answer.