At this point you haven’t asked her to marry you, right? As long as she insists that he be there, don’t ask her to marry you. Simple enough. If she starts to ask why you never ask, let her know you have unresolved issues. If she asks you to marry her, tell her the same.
I couldn't believe she actually told him she was unhappy and would leave if things didn't change and he can't be bothered to do like 5% of the household work just to ensure the marriage doesn't blowup.
She NEEDS to leave at this point. This man does not give a damn about OP and how she feels. And, like you said, he definitely needs to finally suffer some consequences. And he's certainly going to get exactly what he deserves when she finally leaves and he's forced to start doing things on his own.
Well personally i like when the guy pays, that doesn't make me a bad person. She was straightforward with what she wants
very painful at the moment.
Ew. This is so wrong. You “convinced” her to change her sexuality??? As a teenager??? Also, your petty and disgusting. Break up. Never date again.
At this point you haven’t asked her to marry you, right? As long as she insists that he be there, don’t ask her to marry you. Simple enough. If she starts to ask why you never ask, let her know you have unresolved issues. If she asks you to marry her, tell her the same.
Good luck
This is hilarious actually ?
Also legally telling the children their father is 'mean' and then posting that on social media… op gonna get wrecked in court for parental alienation.
Your children are growing up learning that a normal family is one where Mommy treats Daddy like shit. Is that what you want?
You could be like hey man. I appreciate how kind, gentle and sensitive you are. But I don't mind being manhandled every now and then either homey.
EXACTLY!
I couldn't believe she actually told him she was unhappy and would leave if things didn't change and he can't be bothered to do like 5% of the household work just to ensure the marriage doesn't blowup.
She NEEDS to leave at this point. This man does not give a damn about OP and how she feels. And, like you said, he definitely needs to finally suffer some consequences. And he's certainly going to get exactly what he deserves when she finally leaves and he's forced to start doing things on his own.