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I’m so appalled I don’t even know what to say. Your husband is an inconsiderate, disgusting monster. The idea that you’ve been plunging his shit twice a month for 20 years is so fucking sad. Yes marriage requires compromise, but not this.
Yes. People change a lot after 10 years lol. I’m always irked by redditors who think cheating is such a morally black and white thing. It’s almost always grey.
You got to work out if this was frustration he was venting (and now feels better) with legitimate issues and problems he's had trouble talking about….
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He says she did nothing, but who raised the son for 5 years while he was at work?
The amount of people who weaponize SA is SO SMALL compared to the amount of people who have been, and haven't done a single thing to get justice.
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I’m so appalled I don’t even know what to say. Your husband is an inconsiderate, disgusting monster. The idea that you’ve been plunging his shit twice a month for 20 years is so fucking sad. Yes marriage requires compromise, but not this.
Yes. People change a lot after 10 years lol. I’m always irked by redditors who think cheating is such a morally black and white thing. It’s almost always grey.
You got to work out if this was frustration he was venting (and now feels better) with legitimate issues and problems he's had trouble talking about….
or if he was angry at himself and lashed out at you….or worse if he's manipulative and deliberately saying these things to hurt or control you.
If it's legitimate issues he can't bring them up like this and not discuss them, so reach out on that assumption. He's in his 30s he should know how to communicate by now, what he's done is a really unhealthy way to resolve issues. If you discover it's one of the other two you should think about it more. Is this a pattern? Resolvable? Or something you should leave over? If he's deliberately doing it you should leave.