when it comes to teens dating teens, my libe of thinking is as long as yall could have been in high school together it's fine. you're only one grade above her, don't worry too much bud.
Honestly dude as long as she didn't say anything bad, I think it was just a dumb mistake. It sounds like this drunkenly slipped to her sister that she was talking to in confidence. Sometimes family over shares, it happens, my mom knows I be fuckin too.
All the people saying she's crying to manipulate you are just plain stupid, sorry. She's a teenage girl who just completely humiliated herself and her boyfriend in front of her entire family. I think that would make most teen girls cry. The fact that it's entirely her fault isn't gonna eliminate how mortifying this whole situation is. Just let her calm down and then talk to her about it when her family isn't there. She sounds like she feels guilt so I'd bet she'd sincerely apologize to you.
If she uses crying as a way to get out of apologizing, THEN she's manipulating you. But just crying from being in a stressful situation does not = manipulation.
This guy only wanted you when he thought he could take advantage of your presumed naivete about sex. Really think about that. He didn't want a shared experience, he wanted to be the one telling you what to expect, what to do, what's normal, what you should like and want. It's easier to manipulate someone if they don't have any other experience to weigh it against, thus he needed a virgin – most likely to be found among “good Christian girls.” He's a predator, you were prey, and he picked you for what he assumed to be true about you. Finding out that you had been with other guys and would not be a doe-eyed simpleton in bed is not what he wanted. He had to sleep with you to confirm that it wouldn't work, and the fact that he broke up with you should prove that being a virgin was the main thing he wanted from you.
It's wild that you are mourning the loss of this relationship, because he does not sound like someone who would be a good partner. The fact that you couldn't be honest with him for nearly a year speaks volumes about how open and honest the communication in your relationship actually was. You should want an intimate partner that you can truly be vulnerable with. It sounds like you were both just role-playing the relationship you wanted, it wasn't actually real.
True but her ex is also seeing someone else
Dude's a douche, but 20kg is more than some weight
I'm not disagreeing with you man, genuinely I don't know what the fuck I'm doing and if yeah I get I'm not it but who is?
the problem is there are no adults to handle this shit, nor is Jane willing to even entertain the idea of seeking help.
if we all left her, she would be on her own and the worst would happen.
when it comes to teens dating teens, my libe of thinking is as long as yall could have been in high school together it's fine. you're only one grade above her, don't worry too much bud.
Honestly dude as long as she didn't say anything bad, I think it was just a dumb mistake. It sounds like this drunkenly slipped to her sister that she was talking to in confidence. Sometimes family over shares, it happens, my mom knows I be fuckin too.
All the people saying she's crying to manipulate you are just plain stupid, sorry. She's a teenage girl who just completely humiliated herself and her boyfriend in front of her entire family. I think that would make most teen girls cry. The fact that it's entirely her fault isn't gonna eliminate how mortifying this whole situation is. Just let her calm down and then talk to her about it when her family isn't there. She sounds like she feels guilt so I'd bet she'd sincerely apologize to you.
If she uses crying as a way to get out of apologizing, THEN she's manipulating you. But just crying from being in a stressful situation does not = manipulation.
LOL Right?!?
No he doesn’t. No one said that. You all are making up a scenario.
This guy only wanted you when he thought he could take advantage of your presumed naivete about sex. Really think about that. He didn't want a shared experience, he wanted to be the one telling you what to expect, what to do, what's normal, what you should like and want. It's easier to manipulate someone if they don't have any other experience to weigh it against, thus he needed a virgin – most likely to be found among “good Christian girls.” He's a predator, you were prey, and he picked you for what he assumed to be true about you. Finding out that you had been with other guys and would not be a doe-eyed simpleton in bed is not what he wanted. He had to sleep with you to confirm that it wouldn't work, and the fact that he broke up with you should prove that being a virgin was the main thing he wanted from you.
It's wild that you are mourning the loss of this relationship, because he does not sound like someone who would be a good partner. The fact that you couldn't be honest with him for nearly a year speaks volumes about how open and honest the communication in your relationship actually was. You should want an intimate partner that you can truly be vulnerable with. It sounds like you were both just role-playing the relationship you wanted, it wasn't actually real.