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Tell him you'd be delighted to attend the event, but would feel more comfortable with your own room, and let him know that you'll book and pay for the room.
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Just give her keys to whomever she's appointed as her cat guardian and be done with it. This is a person in crisis and there's not much more you can do. She'll either get her life together or she won't (and nothing you can do will impact that one way or the other).
Babes please reread your life story from the perspective of a friend who loves you very much. I couldn’t finish all of it because it was just too much for my. But you’re living it!
You’re not giving up on anyone. You’re not abandoning anything. This man has treated you poorly and unfairly for way too long.
Reclaim your life. Your independence. Your sense of self. Your peace. This bastard took your peace from you. Make him pay alimony and child support and you get your life together to set a better example for your children. This man is literally the furthest thing from a rolemodel you would want from your kids. He’ll either wreck them or turn them into him.
But she doesn’t want a relationship with you. Don’t be that guy constantly hanging around asking if she’s ready yet, it’s putting pressure on her which is unfair.
A pre-nup does not mean a lack of trust or faith that the marriage will last. It means clarity about financial expectations. It gives you and your boyfriend the opportunity to determine how your financial future will be structured. You both are bringing resources to the table. You need to have a mature discussion about what this means. This agreement is necessary even if you never divorce. But if you do divorce, it’s better to have ironed out all of the details when you’re in love with each other and want to be fair, rather than when you’re in the upheaval of divorce.
By choice. He chose that for himself.
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Tell him you'd be delighted to attend the event, but would feel more comfortable with your own room, and let him know that you'll book and pay for the room.
This makes clear your boundary, and allows you to participate in networking.
Ok, that makes perfect sense. Yeah, don't know what I was thinking
Just give her keys to whomever she's appointed as her cat guardian and be done with it. This is a person in crisis and there's not much more you can do. She'll either get her life together or she won't (and nothing you can do will impact that one way or the other).
Honestly, if I was the BF, I’d be seeing this much obsessing over my ex’s name as a giant red flag. Especially in a relationship that’s so new.
Congratulations on learning your actions have consequences.
Also, these people are women, not girls. They are adults. Girls are children.
Tell him that you want to break up, and when he freaks out tell him that it was a test and he failed and you’re still breaking up with him.
Babes please reread your life story from the perspective of a friend who loves you very much. I couldn’t finish all of it because it was just too much for my. But you’re living it!
You’re not giving up on anyone. You’re not abandoning anything. This man has treated you poorly and unfairly for way too long.
Reclaim your life. Your independence. Your sense of self. Your peace. This bastard took your peace from you. Make him pay alimony and child support and you get your life together to set a better example for your children. This man is literally the furthest thing from a rolemodel you would want from your kids. He’ll either wreck them or turn them into him.
This is your permission to choose yourself.
But she doesn’t want a relationship with you. Don’t be that guy constantly hanging around asking if she’s ready yet, it’s putting pressure on her which is unfair.
A pre-nup does not mean a lack of trust or faith that the marriage will last. It means clarity about financial expectations. It gives you and your boyfriend the opportunity to determine how your financial future will be structured. You both are bringing resources to the table. You need to have a mature discussion about what this means. This agreement is necessary even if you never divorce. But if you do divorce, it’s better to have ironed out all of the details when you’re in love with each other and want to be fair, rather than when you’re in the upheaval of divorce.
Yeah but we haven’t labeled it