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If she didn't cheat on him ,he would be more empathetic to her position…but subconsciously he knows ..and it won't ever go away She betrayed him…and doesn't really love him. He should leave her …the way she abandoned him when she cheated
Leave. People are making you out to be the bad person. I think he is the abusive person. But at this point, it doesn’t really matter who is at fault, this relationship is toxic. Please leave for your mental health.
A major part of Mormonism is centered around building you place in the afterlife. Women get to heaven through their husbands. Her religious friends and family will likely be very concerned about her planning a future with a non Mormon.
You guys are still very young. However, at some point you guys need to have an honest discussion about your long term compatibility. Only the two of you can work that out. Keep in mind, you can’t build a solid lifelong relationship hoping someone will change.
I have been binge watching crime shows and noticed a trend with Indian women murdering their mother in laws because of their abuse. Seems like it's the norm to be awful to young women.
It literally does. There are shelters specifically for male abuse victims and shelters that care for both men and women. I don't know where you're getting that information from.
So you're in a toxic, abusive relationship and you're not willing to admit it to yourself yet, so you're rearranging your life and giving up some dignity in order to avoid her abuse without ending the relationship? And she harasses and attacks your friends, and you stand up for her rather than them? Dude…really?
I always find it strange when couples share their body count. Like how does that even come up without one person specifically asking? You can talk extensively about past relationships and dating habits to be vulnerable and grow closer without talking body count.
While I can see how this would be shocking to find out, I also understand why she lied about it. She’s right that the societal reaction of a woman having triple digit numbers is much different than a man. Women more likely feel shame when sharing that whereas men would high five each other over it. I was recently listening to a podcast where a guy divulged he’s had over 700 partners. Shocking either way, but can you imagine if a woman said that?
All that to say, I think what is bothering you deep down is less about the lie and more driven by insecurities. It’s easy to feel confident in your sexual abilities if you think your partner is on the same playing field as you, but knowing she has a wider variety of experiences would make anyone wonder how they compare. Or even feel like they missed out since their numbers don’t compare.
However, think about it like this. Hypothetically, 100 partners could mean 100 one night stands. 100 total sexual experiences. Someone else could be in a relationship for a few months and have sex 100 times total too. All I’m saying is that I know you’re trying not to judge her, but you really are judging her. If you can’t get past it on your own, I’d suggest individual and couples counseling before this counties to bother you and grow into something you resent her for.
After being broken up for one entire week you were ready to move on? I'm feeling all sorts of ways about this. Ex and best friend deserve each other. Dump them both. And maybe look into being single for a bit OP.
I would never treat my husband like this if he lost his job. I’m lucky enough to be a housewife and it’s honestly because of his pay, but if he had to take a job with lower wages for mental health reasons or just because he couldn’t find one and I had to go back to work I would. I’d never think of spending on a credit card when money isn’t coming in and why are you going out to dinner if you can’t even afford therapy?
This woman is draining you and doesn’t even seem particularly happy in the relationship either. You two aren’t compatible.
If she didn't cheat on him ,he would be more empathetic to her position…but subconsciously he knows ..and it won't ever go away She betrayed him…and doesn't really love him. He should leave her …the way she abandoned him when she cheated
Nevermind that Cena and the other guy is laying there with just their underwear. But “it doesn't count since they don't have their dicks out”.
It is pretty ridiculous what she's saying, but it isn't really the same LMAO
Leave. People are making you out to be the bad person. I think he is the abusive person. But at this point, it doesn’t really matter who is at fault, this relationship is toxic. Please leave for your mental health.
A major part of Mormonism is centered around building you place in the afterlife. Women get to heaven through their husbands. Her religious friends and family will likely be very concerned about her planning a future with a non Mormon.
You guys are still very young. However, at some point you guys need to have an honest discussion about your long term compatibility. Only the two of you can work that out. Keep in mind, you can’t build a solid lifelong relationship hoping someone will change.
I have been binge watching crime shows and noticed a trend with Indian women murdering their mother in laws because of their abuse. Seems like it's the norm to be awful to young women.
It literally does. There are shelters specifically for male abuse victims and shelters that care for both men and women. I don't know where you're getting that information from.
Thank you! That is a personal pet peeve of mine
So you're in a toxic, abusive relationship and you're not willing to admit it to yourself yet, so you're rearranging your life and giving up some dignity in order to avoid her abuse without ending the relationship? And she harasses and attacks your friends, and you stand up for her rather than them? Dude…really?
I always find it strange when couples share their body count. Like how does that even come up without one person specifically asking? You can talk extensively about past relationships and dating habits to be vulnerable and grow closer without talking body count.
While I can see how this would be shocking to find out, I also understand why she lied about it. She’s right that the societal reaction of a woman having triple digit numbers is much different than a man. Women more likely feel shame when sharing that whereas men would high five each other over it. I was recently listening to a podcast where a guy divulged he’s had over 700 partners. Shocking either way, but can you imagine if a woman said that?
All that to say, I think what is bothering you deep down is less about the lie and more driven by insecurities. It’s easy to feel confident in your sexual abilities if you think your partner is on the same playing field as you, but knowing she has a wider variety of experiences would make anyone wonder how they compare. Or even feel like they missed out since their numbers don’t compare.
However, think about it like this. Hypothetically, 100 partners could mean 100 one night stands. 100 total sexual experiences. Someone else could be in a relationship for a few months and have sex 100 times total too. All I’m saying is that I know you’re trying not to judge her, but you really are judging her. If you can’t get past it on your own, I’d suggest individual and couples counseling before this counties to bother you and grow into something you resent her for.
Well, well, well, if it isn't the consequences of my own actions.
After being broken up for one entire week you were ready to move on? I'm feeling all sorts of ways about this. Ex and best friend deserve each other. Dump them both. And maybe look into being single for a bit OP.
Jumping on the divorce bandwagon.
I would never treat my husband like this if he lost his job. I’m lucky enough to be a housewife and it’s honestly because of his pay, but if he had to take a job with lower wages for mental health reasons or just because he couldn’t find one and I had to go back to work I would. I’d never think of spending on a credit card when money isn’t coming in and why are you going out to dinner if you can’t even afford therapy?
This woman is draining you and doesn’t even seem particularly happy in the relationship either. You two aren’t compatible.