People deal with things in different ways and while I think he was tactless and honestly insensitive, the asking for a blowjob is just that. The part that for me is a red flag is how he reacted when you said no and pointed out WHY you said no (which tbh, should have been completely obvious anyway). He should be comforting you and looking after you – you’ve had surgery for crying out loud! Not to mention the loss of your baby. I’m so sorry you are going through this and that your husband seems to be completely emotionally distant, please consider where you want to go from here – and what having a child with this man could look like when you/baby are under the weather
I was with you for the first two paragraphs. Really took a turn after that. He misled you about his financial situation by falsely inflating his savings. He misled you about how much he had been saving vs spending. And his solution for this is a bailout from family — for longterm debt that you also would be saddled with. There’s a lot wrong with that picture, but youre fixating on the wrong things – the problem is the dishonesty, not whether you can still get a house. Don’t marry or buy a house with someone you can’t trust.
THIS IS A TROLL. Same writing style as the rest of them! Remember kids are home on spring break. Sooo many fake stories this week.
People deal with things in different ways and while I think he was tactless and honestly insensitive, the asking for a blowjob is just that. The part that for me is a red flag is how he reacted when you said no and pointed out WHY you said no (which tbh, should have been completely obvious anyway). He should be comforting you and looking after you – you’ve had surgery for crying out loud! Not to mention the loss of your baby. I’m so sorry you are going through this and that your husband seems to be completely emotionally distant, please consider where you want to go from here – and what having a child with this man could look like when you/baby are under the weather
Break up with him if it offends you that much
Understand that not everyone is open and agrees with the trans stuff
I asked her because she was just the closest person I could contact cause she was in person
I was with you for the first two paragraphs. Really took a turn after that. He misled you about his financial situation by falsely inflating his savings. He misled you about how much he had been saving vs spending. And his solution for this is a bailout from family — for longterm debt that you also would be saddled with. There’s a lot wrong with that picture, but youre fixating on the wrong things – the problem is the dishonesty, not whether you can still get a house. Don’t marry or buy a house with someone you can’t trust.