It's quite likely a few of the behaviors you thought of as, “annoying”, were actually worse than you think. The things you've described here are horrifying and I hate to think how much worse your ex was that these seem like minor annoyances. Your “husband ” was not subtly threatening you, and using your past against you. I hope you get and stay somewhere safe and far away from him.
Have you actually spoken to her about it? Sometimes folks with ASD need you to frankly spell out an issue because – depending on the person – social nuance is a difficult thing to pick up on
. I would rather us go back to condoms then for me to feel less of a man.
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It's quite likely a few of the behaviors you thought of as, “annoying”, were actually worse than you think. The things you've described here are horrifying and I hate to think how much worse your ex was that these seem like minor annoyances. Your “husband ” was not subtly threatening you, and using your past against you. I hope you get and stay somewhere safe and far away from him.
Have you actually spoken to her about it? Sometimes folks with ASD need you to frankly spell out an issue because – depending on the person – social nuance is a difficult thing to pick up on