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Date: October 5, 2022
How the hell am I supposed to develop language skills when everyone laughs at me and says they'd rather speak in English?
I was at high C1 without practicing much with English users. I learned by watching youtube and movie and TV shows in English. You can try it as well, perhaps it'll work for you too.
I studied a year in the UK, and in my experience, those who don't speak decent English also struggle to make friends with English users too (they largely kept to their own ethnic groups). One domestic student reflected on this and said to me 'I guess I don't have to people who don't speak English well, since I can speak to those who are from the same culture and do speak decent English.'
My Dutch friends also say 'I'd much rather speak English with expats'. Friends living in the NL also told me that Dutch people usually switch to English.
I am offering a perspective from my point of view to understand OP's situation. it's really not uncommon in my experience for native speakers of a language that isn't english to opt out of speaking their native language. I really don't see them as terrible people. But hey, let's agree to disagree.
Nah, going through phones should absolutely be an acceptable thing as long as it doesn’t become unhinged. I have boundaries I want upheld in a relationship and open phone access gives me peace of mind. It’s so weird how people will literally live! with someone who’s ass they have licked and be like no the phone is private. Unless the relationship is open.
You’re being manipulated though friend. I used to talk to someone like this who made me feel like I was the only girl in the world as long as I didn’t bring up his phone bs. The guy I am talking to now gives me full access anytime I want. No restrictions.
I am aware of his likes and interests. -.-
I know a woman who behaved like this. She had 2 more children and like started over again, with her 2 younger children and their father. She became obsessed with mommy makeovers, lip fillers, breast augmentation, you name the surgery, she had it. She is now obsessed with taking selfies and posting them all over her social media.
In my opinion, some women when experiencing their children growing up and the natural progression of life and the roles that accompany that progression, can't handle the roles ( i.e. grandmother). Instead of playing the role of grandmother, they remain mom by having more children. Instead of an aging body, they have surgical interventions.
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It's true that he is an abuser. Leave him, but there is one more thing that caught my attention. You say you are feeling unwell in your body (I presume physically), and having the same body type, I never felt that. I don't understand exactly why you feel unwell, since it sounds like a perfectly healthy body (ribs slightly showing is not anorexic nor sign of something concerning). This is a genuine question, what makes your body unwell exactly ? Reason I'm interested is because I once wanted to put weight, but it was for aesthetic reasons. I lied that I'm feeling bad and everyone trusted me due to my looks, but in reality I felt great, that is just my body type. But it didn't go as planned because eating more lead to imbalance in my organism and I even developed gastritis and fked up my digestive system. Figured I feel healthiest while maintaining my natural weight, which is not much. If it's not your case, I highly advise you to be extra cautious when starting a weight gaining diet. It involves tons of food and it should be well regulated! And yet again-ditch the boyfriend
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You really shouldn't move in together with all this stuff unresolved
Just me personally wouldn’t be with a man that could abandon their child.
The way you framed the comment made it sound like you think it's morally wrong for a man to not want to be involved in his kid's life. Like calling op selfish for standing by his decision.
Imo it's wrong to have a kid and then abandon them later in the kids life, but if someone never wanted a child, before the kid is born, then that isn't wrong or selfish. To me it's similar to putting a baby up for adoption. Some people just aren't at a point in life where they can have a kid.
I agree with both of those. 2 birds 1 stone. You confront him by telling him “Wtf is this BS, you led me on when you have a fiancé?! She has a right to know about what you were doing.”
Its shitty situation for sure. Your job will likely be jeopardized if he plays the power trip move.
I don't know… you have to do some soul searching here.
Seeing how he is an overseer. It should go to HR. You might not have been the first. Get above his authority line.
Sounds to me like they need somewhere else to vent. A journal, art, music, social media posts tagged mental health, a friend sometimes, or a therapist if they can afford one. You are their partner, not their therapist. It's also not your job to take care of their mental health and watch everything you say to make sure they don't spiral. I would try taking their hands, saying “you know I love you, but can we set some rules about how much time we spend talking about being sick and then try to move on to other subjects?” Captain Awkward writes good stuff about setting boundaries and having difficult conversations.
It would be lovely if everyone got what they needed from society. Maybe they could channel some of their sadness and helplessness into political anger/ motivation instead? But I don't know how much energy/capability they, or you, have.
From an external perspective it seems pretty clear what’s most likely going on here. The two of you have fallen into an emotional relations go more than a physical. He clearly isn’t anywhere near ready for a serious relationship, especially a relationship that would combine emotions and physical. He’s looking for physical elsewhere because he still has those urges.
He’s not even close to being ready to date again.
Gonna go out on a limb and say hours hangup is a touch of misogyny.
Words of affirmation are actually pretty easy, you just need to develop a habit.
“Dinner was really great, you did a fantastic job.”
“Thank you for X, I really appreciate it.”
“You look amazing today.”
“I'm proud of you for X accomplishment, you worked very hot.”
I can be the quiet type sometimes so I make it a point to thank my husband for all sorts of mundane things a lot.
Okay first of all, 8 years is not that big of an age difference so don’t let Reddit convince you it is
Secondly, you know what they call people who use the pull out method, right? Parents. Stop using pull out!!! Even pre-come can contain sperm! Consider a copper IUD, maybe? It’s 99.9% effective and it’s hormone-free.
Third, what he did was a form of sexual assault. He knows how you feel about it, and rather than clarify “hey, do you mean I can come inside you bare?” he just did it. The onus was on him to communicate more clearly (since your wishes were well-established), and he didn’t bother. He took advantage of you, and that’s the one thing that makes the age difference iffy.
I think maybe the “benefits” should end with this dude.
I do agree, I need therapy and get help. I’m not saying how I feel is the correct way but its just the way I feel. His dad is an ex alcoholic, but he was way too young for remember it. I’m not sure about the rest of his family as they don’t have any contact
You're about to get rolled nude, but maybe it'll be worth it. Obviously there won't be any platonic friendship here once she's finished with you. Maybe look at it as getting to test drive a car you could never afford to own. There's actually nothing “healthiest” about this “friendship”. But at this point the sexual tension has likely already crowded out anything real in terms of being actual friends. So enjoy the ride, just don't take it too seriously.
Thanks for the debunking of misinformation.
She probably wanted to break up already, and is just grasping at straws for a reason, instead of just saying she isn't into you.
You don't have anything to apologize for, you tried your best to give her the space she wanted, she could have told you where she is going, and didn't, she can't expect you to know ahead of time. And if she had been interested in continuing the relationship would have laughed it up as a funny coincidence.