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it doesn’t surprise me one bit that he sent you the money. he realized that you have a spine when you decided not to put up with his shit and now he’s trying to weasel his way back into your good graces by giving you gifts because spending money on you is a million times easier than just being a good person. this is a very, very common manipulation tactic not just with toxic romantic partners, but with toxic parents and friends. usually the way it goes is that they gift you money/gifts that allegedly have no strings attached and then the next time you get in a disagreement with them, they throw the fact you accepted their gifts back in your face because “how can you be too good for me if you’re more than happy to cash my checks/accept my presents?”
he already showed you his true colors, so I wouldn’t waste my time with someone who is that bigoted
Nothing wrong for either of you.you guys are not compatible and you shouldn’t have sex with someone just so they don’t dump you. You need to find a man with low sex drive too.
Sounds like he’s been doing a deep dive into the misogynistic part of the internet. Don’t raise your daughter around such a gigantic asshole. It’s time for a come to Jesus conversation that if he doesn’t cut the shit and go to therapy with you, you should leave. What does he do anyway? Sounds like you do everything anyway, surely you’re life would be easier without his dead weight.
What country do you live! in? It is not usual for DCS to just pop in – at least not where I on-line. How often has she reported you to social services?
Also, it seems like your mother is not very supportive. Why are you confiding in her?
And can you explain how your boyfriend is paying the bills if he doesn't have a job?
Nahh let him be. Just keep doing you.
LOL ? ?
I don't agree with what you did, but you don't seem to be asking for advice, so that's cool.
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No popcorn, Jorts, just salami
What’s his solution? Does he want you ask for a pay reduction? What a fucking meatball
it doesn’t surprise me one bit that he sent you the money. he realized that you have a spine when you decided not to put up with his shit and now he’s trying to weasel his way back into your good graces by giving you gifts because spending money on you is a million times easier than just being a good person. this is a very, very common manipulation tactic not just with toxic romantic partners, but with toxic parents and friends. usually the way it goes is that they gift you money/gifts that allegedly have no strings attached and then the next time you get in a disagreement with them, they throw the fact you accepted their gifts back in your face because “how can you be too good for me if you’re more than happy to cash my checks/accept my presents?”
he already showed you his true colors, so I wouldn’t waste my time with someone who is that bigoted
Every guy is different.
Nothing wrong for either of you.you guys are not compatible and you shouldn’t have sex with someone just so they don’t dump you. You need to find a man with low sex drive too.
Sounds like he’s been doing a deep dive into the misogynistic part of the internet. Don’t raise your daughter around such a gigantic asshole. It’s time for a come to Jesus conversation that if he doesn’t cut the shit and go to therapy with you, you should leave. What does he do anyway? Sounds like you do everything anyway, surely you’re life would be easier without his dead weight.
What country do you live! in? It is not usual for DCS to just pop in – at least not where I on-line. How often has she reported you to social services?
Also, it seems like your mother is not very supportive. Why are you confiding in her?
And can you explain how your boyfriend is paying the bills if he doesn't have a job?