“What's frustrating is that so much of the past three years was out of my control, and it feels like I'm getting the brunt of the blame.”
You were 100% in charge of how things might go down on the day of your date. I think he's focusing on how that day was very important to him and didn't seem at all important to you.
I am not practicing any kind of sex with her until i am 100% sure I'm clean. I'm taking profilaxis to lower HIV risk and I'm on the lookout for any other symptoms of any other diseases. I have a pretty healthy lifestyle, I take lots of vitamin supplements and amino acids, and my immune system is strong, so i'm optimistic. Plus de doctor told me he was 100% sure I'd be alright, and I know they don't make promises lightly, so I think my prospects are good.
So far i only have a sore throat but that's a very common thing for me.
Anyways, I told her. She was super understanding, told me I had nothing to worry about and that she'd be by my said every step of the way.
Honestly I don't know what I've done to deserve a girl so wonderful as her but I'm making sure I repay her kindness for the rest of my life. Damn I love her so much.
Fix what? You’re the one the mess up and he doesn’t want to deal with anymore. Drop it before he gets a restraining order
“What's frustrating is that so much of the past three years was out of my control, and it feels like I'm getting the brunt of the blame.”
You were 100% in charge of how things might go down on the day of your date. I think he's focusing on how that day was very important to him and didn't seem at all important to you.
Have the wedding you want and don’t invite the physco. Hire security if you have too.
I think that is what I will do, I'm just afraid that I know what the outcome will be and it will likely be the latter. It just hurts
Come on, my friend, it's time to put your big boy pants on now and dump this woman. Have some self respect.
Seven years is not enough. My father was sober for twenty years before he relapsed. I will never trust him again.
Your ex may never trust you again. That is the harsh reality you have to accept.
Find a good attorney. Move on and heal. Don't look back.
I am not practicing any kind of sex with her until i am 100% sure I'm clean. I'm taking profilaxis to lower HIV risk and I'm on the lookout for any other symptoms of any other diseases. I have a pretty healthy lifestyle, I take lots of vitamin supplements and amino acids, and my immune system is strong, so i'm optimistic. Plus de doctor told me he was 100% sure I'd be alright, and I know they don't make promises lightly, so I think my prospects are good.
So far i only have a sore throat but that's a very common thing for me.
Anyways, I told her. She was super understanding, told me I had nothing to worry about and that she'd be by my said every step of the way.
Honestly I don't know what I've done to deserve a girl so wonderful as her but I'm making sure I repay her kindness for the rest of my life. Damn I love her so much.