The toxic one here is her. She wants to hang out with a ex FWB, then she wants to invite him to your wedding, and gets pissed and accuses you of being toxic when you push back and say you don't want him there.
This is how your relationship will go for the remainder of the time. It won't matter what you want or how you feel, only what she wants, and if you don't allow her to have her way, then you are toxic and the bad person.
If she's smart, she won't give you another chance after you went through her phone while she was sleeping, you fucking maniac. Who does that?! Especially after you've been together for all of a MONTH. Why are you in such a rush to light your life on fire
You're digging into kind of the funny part of the issue; she's a bit disorganized, and as I can relate, a procrastinator. I've been trying to get her to schedule an appointment with the eye doctor for a new prescription for… Probably our entire relationship, since I learned from her family that she needed glasses, but she stopped wearing them? Off-topic, I know, but just an example of what I'm talking about.
She did have that “a-ha” moment reading about this being side effects of SSRI's about a month ago, it's on her mind, but I wonder if she's actually scheduled an appointment or not… With it just not being a huge priority of hers and all, maybe she prefers staying on her current meds and casting the side effects, well, to the side.
And beyond that, I get what you're saying. I don't want to force her into changing her prescription if the alternative doesn't work for her as well as the current one does.
I really appreciate the input. I'll keep it in mind moving forward.
I have a drama Queen cousin as well, always making shit up. A few days after my wedding she tried to tell me my new husband slept with her the night before the wedding.
Um, no bitch! He was sleeping with me! Happy you didn’t listen to this evil woman, OP! And very sorry for your tragic loss.
I know I was wrong for lying about buying it back but at the same time her car was just unpractical. Her fathers the only reason she even wanted this car in the first place and it had cost her more money than what she had bought it for originally.
I wanted to just help my sisters and nephews out she wouldn’t even let my sister drive her car to interviews.
The thing he doesn't realize is that he gave it to you. He's the gross one, not you. I think you should dump him for being unkind about it. He should at least be understanding and want to help, and make sure you drink a lot of water and pee after. It's just as much his responsibility as it is yours if he wants to be your boyfriend.
She rubbed her hard genitals on another persons naked genitals without you being ok with it. Yeah, it was cheating.
Sounds like your wife is likely into women.
She could have sold the MacBook to repair the car, if transportation was that important.
My advice is don't get married
The toxic one here is her. She wants to hang out with a ex FWB, then she wants to invite him to your wedding, and gets pissed and accuses you of being toxic when you push back and say you don't want him there.
This is how your relationship will go for the remainder of the time. It won't matter what you want or how you feel, only what she wants, and if you don't allow her to have her way, then you are toxic and the bad person.
Why do you want to marry someone like that?
If she's smart, she won't give you another chance after you went through her phone while she was sleeping, you fucking maniac. Who does that?! Especially after you've been together for all of a MONTH. Why are you in such a rush to light your life on fire
You're digging into kind of the funny part of the issue; she's a bit disorganized, and as I can relate, a procrastinator. I've been trying to get her to schedule an appointment with the eye doctor for a new prescription for… Probably our entire relationship, since I learned from her family that she needed glasses, but she stopped wearing them? Off-topic, I know, but just an example of what I'm talking about.
She did have that “a-ha” moment reading about this being side effects of SSRI's about a month ago, it's on her mind, but I wonder if she's actually scheduled an appointment or not… With it just not being a huge priority of hers and all, maybe she prefers staying on her current meds and casting the side effects, well, to the side.
And beyond that, I get what you're saying. I don't want to force her into changing her prescription if the alternative doesn't work for her as well as the current one does.
I really appreciate the input. I'll keep it in mind moving forward.
I have a drama Queen cousin as well, always making shit up. A few days after my wedding she tried to tell me my new husband slept with her the night before the wedding.
Um, no bitch! He was sleeping with me! Happy you didn’t listen to this evil woman, OP! And very sorry for your tragic loss.
I know I was wrong for lying about buying it back but at the same time her car was just unpractical. Her fathers the only reason she even wanted this car in the first place and it had cost her more money than what she had bought it for originally.
I wanted to just help my sisters and nephews out she wouldn’t even let my sister drive her car to interviews.
The thing he doesn't realize is that he gave it to you. He's the gross one, not you. I think you should dump him for being unkind about it. He should at least be understanding and want to help, and make sure you drink a lot of water and pee after. It's just as much his responsibility as it is yours if he wants to be your boyfriend.