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Date: November 3, 2022
You just need to change your mindset on how dating and healthy relationships work. I promise you, that if you were the only one who didn't have the mindset about I'm to discuss, then these subs wouldn't exist.
You have a history of toxic relationship. That can be for a number of reasons. Initially, it's usually because we don't know any better, and then subsequently we think what we experience is “normal.” If it continues, it's generally due to having lost a lot of confidence and then just not wanting to be alone.
At the very least, your current relationship isn't toxic, at least as far as we know. The problem though, is that it's still not a healthy relationship. This relationship is better. But better doesn't mean good.
So to bring it back, that's what you need to focus on. Decide what you want in a relationship. Not what you think you deserve. Not any preconceived notions you might have about how relationships should work. What do you want? What would make someone compatible with you? What would you consider red flags? Figure all of that out.
Then, use dating for what it is; the process of getting to know someone to see if you're a fit and you're compatible. So as you meet people, use that thought process for the duration of how a normal relationship progression might work. Whether it's when you're talking, going out on dates, or have decided to get into a relationship; if you identify incompatibilities that you logically know there won't be compromise on, you need to walk away. If you see red flags, don't just brush them off. If you end up having issues and you two can't remediate them in a healthy way, leave.
I'll argue to the death that most divorces and long term ends of relationships occur exactly due to this. People identify incompatibilities or issues and force things regardless. You just need to stop doing that.
To bring it back to you so that I can apply what I've just said, let's first ignore the toxic guys. We already know the problem there. Let's focus on this guy. You said you're long distance. That he doesn't drive is obviously a problem in this situation, and that's fair enough. You're drained because you feel like you're the only one making a real effort. Here's the fact; you are. He can't drive. We don't know the reason. If it's because he's chosen not to get a license, or something objectively negative about him, then that should make this easy. But even if it's something that might be beyond his control or potentially temporary; it still exists. Are you supposed to just deal with it and exhaust yourself? The answer is no. It's ok to be honest about it. Good luck.
people aren't catching that her ex boyfriend, as teenagers, cheated with this girl.
yes, tell him condoms.
What is the misunderstanding here? He ate something that didn’t belong to him.
Even if you had great self esteem you'd still be 23 and having your first real dating experience. Your girlfriend is NOT “ready to settle down”. She's 22 and her opinions and views on everything will be changing over the next three or fours years. Marry her now and end up divorced later. Her insistence on this proves that she's not thinking clearly. Your reticence here is healthy and normal. She's the one who's proposing something inadvisable that would only end in tears.
You should have left as soon as they got weird. By staying, you co-signed their behavior