Run like hell and don’t look back. This is the female equivalent of stealthing. Don’t let her gaslight you into thinking it was a one off joke or prank.
You are young and have plenty of time to find someone who isn’t, excuse me, an unethical scumbag.
My girlfriend once said “I'm getting a bit fat”, and I replied “it's ok”. She wasn't impressed ? but it really was/is ok. Just because he's agreeing with you doesn't mean he doesn't find you attractive.
Do you know what the grey rock method is? Practice that while at the same time get your ducks in a row and contact a divorce attorney. Make him suffer a consequence for pressuring you into something you didn’t want.
She’s a psycho. All these people saying she is fine and not moving fast. They are also psychos. Don’t listen to the psychos. It’s best to avoid psychos. You’re partner is a psycho. Avoid your partner
Sounds like you married the rebound and now regret it. It doesn’t seem like it’s entirely about the ex though. You and the current guy have a bad marriage, with or without the memories of the ex clouding things. The problems you mention in your marriage are the kinds of things people divorce over, again with or without memories of an ex clouding the picture.
Try and focus on one thing at a time. Regardless of if you and the ex are “meant to be,” you have to figure out to do with this current marriage. So focus on that first. Make a decision about that and don’t make it with the thought in mind that you will have the ex to fall back on. No. Decide if you want to still be married to this current man and if the marriage can be fixed, even if the ex has no interest in you whatsoever.
Then, after you have decided about that, decide if you want to pursue the ex again. But also realize, your feelings may not match his. Just because he isn’t dating anyone doesn’t mean he’s still hung up on you or misses you or even thinks about you at all. And even if you do get back with the ex, don’t go into it thinking it will be an automatic fairytale. You broke up for a reason. Make sure you resolve that before jumping back in. So many couples get back together after a breakup only to discover that they have the exact same problems as before.
It is challenging to not feel rejected but I now know she just isn't a fan of gifts. She told me now that maybe I should hold back on giving her gifts until she can feel grateful for them
Run like hell and don’t look back. This is the female equivalent of stealthing. Don’t let her gaslight you into thinking it was a one off joke or prank.
You are young and have plenty of time to find someone who isn’t, excuse me, an unethical scumbag.
Also don’t flush your condoms
My girlfriend once said “I'm getting a bit fat”, and I replied “it's ok”. She wasn't impressed ? but it really was/is ok. Just because he's agreeing with you doesn't mean he doesn't find you attractive.
“Usually”
honestly, him getting a penile wouldn’t even make much difference to me, but the reasons behind it might?
Do you know what the grey rock method is? Practice that while at the same time get your ducks in a row and contact a divorce attorney. Make him suffer a consequence for pressuring you into something you didn’t want.
She’s a psycho. All these people saying she is fine and not moving fast. They are also psychos. Don’t listen to the psychos. It’s best to avoid psychos. You’re partner is a psycho. Avoid your partner
Sounds like you married the rebound and now regret it. It doesn’t seem like it’s entirely about the ex though. You and the current guy have a bad marriage, with or without the memories of the ex clouding things. The problems you mention in your marriage are the kinds of things people divorce over, again with or without memories of an ex clouding the picture.
Try and focus on one thing at a time. Regardless of if you and the ex are “meant to be,” you have to figure out to do with this current marriage. So focus on that first. Make a decision about that and don’t make it with the thought in mind that you will have the ex to fall back on. No. Decide if you want to still be married to this current man and if the marriage can be fixed, even if the ex has no interest in you whatsoever.
Then, after you have decided about that, decide if you want to pursue the ex again. But also realize, your feelings may not match his. Just because he isn’t dating anyone doesn’t mean he’s still hung up on you or misses you or even thinks about you at all. And even if you do get back with the ex, don’t go into it thinking it will be an automatic fairytale. You broke up for a reason. Make sure you resolve that before jumping back in. So many couples get back together after a breakup only to discover that they have the exact same problems as before.
It is challenging to not feel rejected but I now know she just isn't a fan of gifts. She told me now that maybe I should hold back on giving her gifts until she can feel grateful for them