“(Girlfriend), I’m lucky and thankful to have met you and I truly enjoy being with you, but I don’t think that I am in the right emotional place to give you the love and attention that you need. I feel like I went into this relationship with haste and didn’t take the time I needed to heal from my previous relationship. I don’t want to end up hurting you in the end and I truly feel like you deserve someone who can give you the same care that you’ve given me.”
With all of the information now; they are in fact having regular sex, and they're thinking of marriage and kids, it becomes more obvious that he's either not ready for this commitment and wants a last ditch attempt to sleep with other people at the same time as keeping OP hanging, or this is his way of breaking out of the situation gradually.
Do you expect a good relation with a person who hides his wedding ring? Keep asking yourselves
I wouldn’t say kinda, you are dumb. No wonder you are the second side piece.
yes, that is what i keep reminding myself but he said it so negatively its getting to me?
“(Girlfriend), I’m lucky and thankful to have met you and I truly enjoy being with you, but I don’t think that I am in the right emotional place to give you the love and attention that you need. I feel like I went into this relationship with haste and didn’t take the time I needed to heal from my previous relationship. I don’t want to end up hurting you in the end and I truly feel like you deserve someone who can give you the same care that you’ve given me.”
Or something like that.
Don't listen to people suggesting that you watch porn with him or that you're crazy for caring about it. Wake up and breakup
Yes this makes sense.
With all of the information now; they are in fact having regular sex, and they're thinking of marriage and kids, it becomes more obvious that he's either not ready for this commitment and wants a last ditch attempt to sleep with other people at the same time as keeping OP hanging, or this is his way of breaking out of the situation gradually.
Neither of these are good.
Dude, run.