Bruh. If he successfully seduces her, then that means she intentionally cheats. There’s not really a way around that.
She doesn’t have to drink or give into pressure. If he drugs her without her knowledge or doesn’t let up on pressure, then that’s rape and not seduction.
Accidental, unintentional cheating is not a thing if both people are clear and on the same page about what their relationship is.
Man I can't see how leaving you wasn't already considered before the secret child drama. Why else does she need primary custody, and need to move across the country? And she decided this move within a month!
Tell her what makes you scared/anxious. Don’t cover up all negative emotion. You can show her how sad and disconnected you feel without ‘blaming’ her. But tell her when you are worried about something too. Show it is normal.
Being around someone who lies about how happy they are when it is clear they are not because they are scared of upsetting you makes you feel insane and invalidates your own perceptions of what us going on.
If you can’t trust your perception, it sets of alarm bells and increases anxiety.
It isn’t surprising she doesn’t want sex if she never orgasms even on her own. I believe (as in I heard this on tiktok) a predictor for sexual desire in both sexes is how much you masturbate and not just the sex drive you are born with.
But again, If you don’t feel safe/like you can trust your feelings you won’t feel like it in general.
There are physical things too, birth control makes some lose sex drive, low body weight, high body weight, lack of sleep etc.
Therapy for her anxiety will help but you can help too. Talk to her about what is troubling her, and don’t try to fix it. Just listen. If her concerns are legit, agree it is scary. If they are not, let her know she can tell you things without you dismissing her as stupid. Ask her why she thinks she feels that, not focus on the unlikely/silly/incorrect thing itself.
NOPE. Shut it down.
We do, yes. We are just gradually and slowly working towards that.
Your boyfriend made an icky racial comment because he's a racist.
I always make sure she is taken care of, I honestly do a lot.
We rent a house, i can afford to live here by myself with the dogs, she cannot.
Bruh. If he successfully seduces her, then that means she intentionally cheats. There’s not really a way around that.
She doesn’t have to drink or give into pressure. If he drugs her without her knowledge or doesn’t let up on pressure, then that’s rape and not seduction.
Accidental, unintentional cheating is not a thing if both people are clear and on the same page about what their relationship is.
Man I can't see how leaving you wasn't already considered before the secret child drama. Why else does she need primary custody, and need to move across the country? And she decided this move within a month!
‘Fixing her’ is the wrong attitude.
Tell her what makes you scared/anxious. Don’t cover up all negative emotion. You can show her how sad and disconnected you feel without ‘blaming’ her. But tell her when you are worried about something too. Show it is normal.
Being around someone who lies about how happy they are when it is clear they are not because they are scared of upsetting you makes you feel insane and invalidates your own perceptions of what us going on.
If you can’t trust your perception, it sets of alarm bells and increases anxiety.
It isn’t surprising she doesn’t want sex if she never orgasms even on her own. I believe (as in I heard this on tiktok) a predictor for sexual desire in both sexes is how much you masturbate and not just the sex drive you are born with.
But again, If you don’t feel safe/like you can trust your feelings you won’t feel like it in general.
There are physical things too, birth control makes some lose sex drive, low body weight, high body weight, lack of sleep etc.
Therapy for her anxiety will help but you can help too. Talk to her about what is troubling her, and don’t try to fix it. Just listen. If her concerns are legit, agree it is scary. If they are not, let her know she can tell you things without you dismissing her as stupid. Ask her why she thinks she feels that, not focus on the unlikely/silly/incorrect thing itself.