You're not happy. You're not even remotely close to content in this relqtionship.
So, who cares what his thoughts are.
(You're convenient. He'd need to put a lot of work into finding a new gf AND convincing her to let him move on with her. It's wayyy easier to randomly show some interest when you press him.)
Fucking horrendous I’m just in shock atm finding this out as our intimacy and sex life is near normal and idk how it is after hearing that after what she’s been through
So your husband knocked your father to the floor, breaking his nose in the process and when it was clear he was going to break his arm your mother and father in law held you down on the couch. Okayyyyy.
This is such a good example of how even the most extraordinary women can be trapped in a cycle of abuse. One of the worst cases of abuse I know is a friend who was a paediatrician (top medical school graduate), extraordinary mum and friend. Her husband is a secondary school teacher. He has worked on breaking her for years and years and she is increasingly unable to leave: two children, dog, social ties, but most of all she is just slowly becoming a shell of herself without the confidence or energy to leave. She sometimes says she wishes he would hit her so she could draw a clear line, but until that point she tells us she can’t find it in her to leave. It really ramped up after the first kid, got so much worse after the second. To the world she has everything, but my god as her friend it’s just heartbreaking. OP get out, get out now before it gets even harder. A new house, a second kid…nothing is going to change someone’s deeply held opinions about your worth.
Totally grooming behavior! Cut him off immediately!
She didn't accept to take a risk, made me feel that she was just thinking about her feelings when she said i don't wanna hurt yours…..
ig this is it. I've accepted that shethe is not meant to be mine so its better to let go…..
anyways thank you very much brother, i'll remember this advice for the rest of my life…
I couldn't agree with this comment more!
You need to see a sex therapist. You've been traumatized by religion and need to work through that.
Also, what's so anxiety inducing about him going down on you or fingering you?
Please don't have a baby with this guy!!
You're not happy. You're not even remotely close to content in this relqtionship.
So, who cares what his thoughts are.
(You're convenient. He'd need to put a lot of work into finding a new gf AND convincing her to let him move on with her. It's wayyy easier to randomly show some interest when you press him.)
Fucking horrendous I’m just in shock atm finding this out as our intimacy and sex life is near normal and idk how it is after hearing that after what she’s been through
You need to draw a line and if crossed leave the situation.
So your husband knocked your father to the floor, breaking his nose in the process and when it was clear he was going to break his arm your mother and father in law held you down on the couch. Okayyyyy.
This is such a good example of how even the most extraordinary women can be trapped in a cycle of abuse. One of the worst cases of abuse I know is a friend who was a paediatrician (top medical school graduate), extraordinary mum and friend. Her husband is a secondary school teacher. He has worked on breaking her for years and years and she is increasingly unable to leave: two children, dog, social ties, but most of all she is just slowly becoming a shell of herself without the confidence or energy to leave. She sometimes says she wishes he would hit her so she could draw a clear line, but until that point she tells us she can’t find it in her to leave. It really ramped up after the first kid, got so much worse after the second. To the world she has everything, but my god as her friend it’s just heartbreaking. OP get out, get out now before it gets even harder. A new house, a second kid…nothing is going to change someone’s deeply held opinions about your worth.