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This is not in the US, it’s a Childs cancer event sponsored by medical and sporting companies.
It was a giveaway from one of the companies.
This dynamic you have with your family is complicated. It spans decades or maybe even generations resulting in the mistreatment of family members. Even in my own family there are things I wish could be different and know that some situations can be fixed, maybe all of them with the right commitment levels of everyone, but realistically not everyone can change or wants to change.
Seemingly, your dad is at the root of most of this disconnect. The dad who, didn’t walk you down the aisle for your wedding, and almost never mention in this post signals to me how little thought and energy goes into that particular relationship at this time. When your mom and dad are still together, how is the relationship with the daughter going to be perfect for just one of those parents and completely absent for the other parent?
That -hot take- aside, your mother is seemingly hot to convince and resistant of anything positive between you two. She may be blind to how to have a healthy connection to her adult daughter which would be greatly different from who you were, her child daughter. Relationships must evolve as we grow and somewhere along the line you took your own path and your mother stayed behind and is stuck somewhere along that line.
Your brother, an immature brother at that, will hopefully see that continual finances involved with family is irresponsible for two adults to have. Your brother asked for you to be a consultant, but then throws away your thoughts because he has already decided. So what was the point?? Especially when you’re not close, this business venture was not the way to grow a relationship when your brother could not handle what you asked of him. Your ideals are different and him or both of you may be rigid shown from the dog situation. Your brother with the inability to see things from your perspective, and maybe even you for not compromising and thinking “ya maybe there is time to shop at a thrift store or Walmart for 30 min this weekend to get replacement clothes”.
All that said, the you being sick and your brothers business is fairly recent, I would not get too worried about the future based on these two events. Your family has trouble with boundaries and you feel even farther from them if you enforce them. This reality is a hard one to stomach – Your independence reduces your dependence on them and that makes them think you love them less for it.
I do see your problems, and I apologize if I leaped on some points, but I do still see you. You try very hot to cultivate something from these relationships and don’t have much to show for it. I feel for that. My personal philosophy is to stop investing into something that won’t give you returns, but when it’s family that script goes out the window and I don’t know what to tell you. Firstly, take care of you. Keep growing the relationships you have, and find your own ways to deal with the sad feelings. Nothing will replace things like your brother and mother, but there are things that will occupy your mind and body until you gain some mental space to see perspective on these matters. Try to feel good for them when they have wins, like when your brother started taking care of his mental health. You know your family best. Try to explore small ways to make them feel loved on your terms. As quality time has been an issue maybe a fruit basket, a family vacation, an outing among siblings like going to a baseball game or a movie with brunch. There’s lot of ways to cultivate a relationship, even after the damage has been done. Careful considerations of what to do, along with the right nurturing can make even the most difficult flowers bloom.
Don’t give up on them, but also don’t martyr yourself and your ideals fully because of them. Family is a bond that can be abrasive af, but not easily broken.
I honestly wouldn’t bother. Had an ex do the same and I guess she found out. It’s your ex, who cares.