There was not an ounce of sexism in their comment and I say this as an outsider to your argument with no skin in the game. You are, in fact, someone I would never invite to a party though because good god you seem horrible.
He may have too much anxiety about his performance. I suggest making sex scheduled for once a week when it suits him to get back into the routine. Don't underestimate the value of scheduled sex.
Honestly you sound like yr bad w money. You're spending insane amounts on gifts. Sounds like your gf had a budget for gifts and stuck to it. Do I think she could've done better sure, but I'd be uncomfortable as fuck receiving gifts $500+ from a college bf working PT
Unfortunately it does cause me pain , I beat myself up about it quite a lot . Thank you for the advice , I think I’ll just have to suck it up and wait until we aren’t in close proximity anymore . Time and new surroundings will hopefully heal my heart
It will make you look clingy and pathetic. If you’re pressuring her right now, she may even feel uncomfortable around you now, and that’s not the right vibe to have if you’re trying to date someone.
The best chance you have for making a relationship with this girl is to make sure she doesn’t feel pressured into it. Give her some time and space not just for a day or two but back off for at least a month. Let her reach out to you.
Just to let everyone know i haven’t said a word to my boyfriend about his finances. Haven’t said anything about what he should do with regards to moving. Haven’t meddled in ANYTHINg. I haven’t even told him half of this stuff that i wrote on this post.
He’s a adult he deserves to know how his mother is treating people he gets in relationships with, otherwise, she will control his life
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There was not an ounce of sexism in their comment and I say this as an outsider to your argument with no skin in the game. You are, in fact, someone I would never invite to a party though because good god you seem horrible.
He may have too much anxiety about his performance. I suggest making sex scheduled for once a week when it suits him to get back into the routine. Don't underestimate the value of scheduled sex.
Honestly you sound like yr bad w money. You're spending insane amounts on gifts. Sounds like your gf had a budget for gifts and stuck to it. Do I think she could've done better sure, but I'd be uncomfortable as fuck receiving gifts $500+ from a college bf working PT
Unfortunately it does cause me pain , I beat myself up about it quite a lot . Thank you for the advice , I think I’ll just have to suck it up and wait until we aren’t in close proximity anymore . Time and new surroundings will hopefully heal my heart
Because you can’t wait for people.
It will make you look clingy and pathetic. If you’re pressuring her right now, she may even feel uncomfortable around you now, and that’s not the right vibe to have if you’re trying to date someone.
The best chance you have for making a relationship with this girl is to make sure she doesn’t feel pressured into it. Give her some time and space not just for a day or two but back off for at least a month. Let her reach out to you.
Men and women can have platonic relationships. Not everyone thinks with their genitals. Awful attitude to have.
Just to let everyone know i haven’t said a word to my boyfriend about his finances. Haven’t said anything about what he should do with regards to moving. Haven’t meddled in ANYTHINg. I haven’t even told him half of this stuff that i wrote on this post.
Your building equity she isn't. Compromise on her paying 33% of the mortgage and half the utilities
In order for him to stay or even be able to work, we would have to be married