He said it was intending as a joke and that he immediately realized it was wrong after he said it. “I meant it as a joke but realized what an asshole comment that was. It wasn’t funny or ok and I’m genuinely sorry. I gave you space instead of relaying on you for emotional support after I upset you. Is there anything else I can do?”
That’s what OP’s husband did. He fucked up, but he apologized like an adult.
You should’ve ended the relationship when she said “I would date the married man”
She doesn’t like you, she just being nice. She probably Fucking a few other people when you go back to your city.
Nope, nope, nope. This controlling and abusive.
I would imagine this depends on where you on-line and it's property laws.
I would assume you saying they could keep it would leave you with no options.
He said it was intending as a joke and that he immediately realized it was wrong after he said it. “I meant it as a joke but realized what an asshole comment that was. It wasn’t funny or ok and I’m genuinely sorry. I gave you space instead of relaying on you for emotional support after I upset you. Is there anything else I can do?”
That’s what OP’s husband did. He fucked up, but he apologized like an adult.
It's entirely possible she's lying 100%
Either way, that revelation didn't change your stance.
But most of all, you knew your BF. Chances are high he never entertained her bullshit .
I have no concern over physical abuse what so ever. But the emotional is taking a toll on this sleep deprived mama.