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GOAL: AMAZING BLOWJOB | I want a suck your big cock [67 tokens remaining]
Date: November 3, 2022
GOAL: AMAZING BLOWJOB | I want a suck your big cock [67 tokens remaining]
I’ll be blunt. It’s not that he doesn’t want to marry. He doesn’t want to marry the OP. He is comfortable and secure and may even love her but I doubt he’s in love her. When a man is in love he’d jump at the chance to marry the woman he loves. He is financially secure and they’ve been together a long time so he has no excuses. If he hasn’t proposed by now, he won’t. He may marry her one day but only if she exerts pressure and is that the kind of marriage anyone wants?
I’m gonna be honest with you, you could’ve stopped the post at him spending the night at another girl’s house. It’s one thing to go visit a female friend, it’s another to spend the night at their house, they’re most likely having sex. And even if they aren’t, he’s definitely still having an emotional affair with her. Him saying he assumed you’d be busy was a BS reason not to invite you, and not telling you he went to see her is a red flag. Him using your sister’s situation for sympathy points when he hasn’t even been there for you is disgusting. This guy is cheating on you and disrespecting you, you gotta kick him to the curve.
My mom shared with me that the reason she never committed suicide is because kids are more likely to kill themselves if they have a parent that has done so. In your darkest moments, try to remember that. You can't put your kids in that position. Keep going to therapy, and try out different meds. It's only been 6 months, which is not a lot of time for mental health treatment. Try to be kinder to yourself and take one day at a time. Today you will survive. One foot in front of the other.
You don’t feel like confronting her about it, but that’s basically all you can do. Tell her your friend told you that she was cuddling with somewhat all night and you were bothered by it and want to hear what she had to say
Umm…this is not at all what I'd describe has a “very strong and healthy” relationship. You say you never fight yet describe completely dysfunctional and abusive dynamics playing out with some regularity. Im sorry to play the “you're young and dk what you're talking about” card, but i really do think you're being naïve. Im sure your time-blindness is frustrating…that does not excuse your partner's behavior. And it doesnt really matter that the rest of the time is fun and happy…thats what every abusive relationship looks like.
I dont think couples counseling is the way to go at this point. Solo therapy would probably be best. Couples counseling usually isnt prescribed when there's abuse at play. Does your partner acknowledge that their behavior is abusive?
Not really, because my anxiety level would be too high that people in other rooms could hear us. I wouldn't be able to enjoy it personally. I do have social anxiety in public places.
One thing that may help you with that is putting on some music a bit louder than you normally would. Or if you're not into music during sex you could try bringing a white noise machine.
Odds are unless you're either staying at a terrible hotel or are INCREDIBLY loud during sex no one can hear you, but I get that social anxiety doesn't care if it's a rational worry or not.
He’s too good to toss away but meh in everyday life, you want more passion and he’s giving you his full but sweet Sunday best. Very hot choice don’t settle