My partner has dyslexia and finds reading more laborious than anything. However, he does love to learn- he just does it differently than me. I could not be with a person not interested in being a lifelong learner, that sounds stagnating.
I cannot learn from Youtube videos because they're painfully slow and I can't get to the bits I need fast enough. He can. I can read a book in a day. He can't. I cannot disparage him for that.
Is there an issue with her learning style or does she truly not care to learn? Not to travel, try new things, learn new hobbies? Are you projecting the value of your style on her?
It sounds like you are already losing respect for her. I encourage you to consider if she truly is not interested in growing or if you don't see the way she is. If she isn't, you two aren't compatible. If she is and you only value book learning, then you two aren't compatible. If she is and you can respect the way she goes about it, then no problem for now!
This . He wants to be the best you ever had and his ego can't handle it. My husband bought me a vibrator for our 5th anniversary.
My partner has dyslexia and finds reading more laborious than anything. However, he does love to learn- he just does it differently than me. I could not be with a person not interested in being a lifelong learner, that sounds stagnating.
I cannot learn from Youtube videos because they're painfully slow and I can't get to the bits I need fast enough. He can. I can read a book in a day. He can't. I cannot disparage him for that.
Is there an issue with her learning style or does she truly not care to learn? Not to travel, try new things, learn new hobbies? Are you projecting the value of your style on her?
It sounds like you are already losing respect for her. I encourage you to consider if she truly is not interested in growing or if you don't see the way she is. If she isn't, you two aren't compatible. If she is and you only value book learning, then you two aren't compatible. If she is and you can respect the way she goes about it, then no problem for now!
Alternate take: OP is farming karma