The thing is, unfortunately this ultimatum sucks. What if OP’s husband ends up feeling bullied into having a kid he doesn’t really want, and then ends up resenting both the kid and his wife? That situation wouldn’t be fair on anyone. Best bet is to talk to him, see if he actually wants children, make him realise that there might not be much time left, and leave if he’s not happy to start trying.
Hyperbolic but you just burned the house down because the drapes were the wrong color. Good luck OP.
⬆️⬆️ this! And chances are he’s lying.
Therapists.
The thing is, unfortunately this ultimatum sucks. What if OP’s husband ends up feeling bullied into having a kid he doesn’t really want, and then ends up resenting both the kid and his wife? That situation wouldn’t be fair on anyone. Best bet is to talk to him, see if he actually wants children, make him realise that there might not be much time left, and leave if he’s not happy to start trying.