Okay you have a very toxic girlfriend. Some stranger comes up to you grabs you and hugs you and she says you're cheating on her, okay. She's extremely immature you're a 9 years older you're in totally different places in your life. This relationship is not going to work so end it now.
It’s something I genuinely tried to understand, and I know I asked her about why she did what she did, but she never provided me with much of an answer. He previous ex left during COVID because she would get pissed at him for his work trips, which were with her dad whenever they opened new campuses for their corporation. Either way, I appreciate you keeping it real brother.
I feel she’s also lived a life that is simply spoon fed, as her dad has pretty much paid her way for everything, including the house she lives in along with the aforementioned Bronco from the post. There are some things she will never understand I suppose.
OP, some women grow up in homes where there are no emotions shown, especially from fathers and these women associate that with being better and stronger. This is far from the truth. Your partner will not change, but rather grow to resent you for being sensitive. This will get worse and not better. You cannot change her. Find someone that you can bond with better.
Some people are higher on the sensitivity spectrum and find it easier to feel their emotions. It is also a strength, because it means that you process sensory input at a more complicated level. This shows up as a net positive in your life, if you let it.
As someone with similar traits. Just as an example, it has made me a more capable father, being able to empathise with my children's feelings. Talk them down from tantrums and generally show up on a deep emotional level.
You need a partner that loves this about you, not one that dislikes it. When you find that person, it will be like night and day.
The chances that your kids will be like you is high and imagine how she would treat the kids.
Do yourself a favour and find someone more compatible. For your sake and hers. She can have her emotionless dud and you can find a girl that cherishes the deep emotional connection you are capable of.
You need to bail out asap
This gotta be the most convoluted, vague post I've read in a long time. Can you, please, explain your situation more plainly?
Damn that’s deep.
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What the actual fuck is wrong with her. Jesus Christ. OP, you might consider making her an ex because she maliciously put you in danger.
Okay you have a very toxic girlfriend. Some stranger comes up to you grabs you and hugs you and she says you're cheating on her, okay. She's extremely immature you're a 9 years older you're in totally different places in your life. This relationship is not going to work so end it now.
It’s something I genuinely tried to understand, and I know I asked her about why she did what she did, but she never provided me with much of an answer. He previous ex left during COVID because she would get pissed at him for his work trips, which were with her dad whenever they opened new campuses for their corporation. Either way, I appreciate you keeping it real brother.
I feel she’s also lived a life that is simply spoon fed, as her dad has pretty much paid her way for everything, including the house she lives in along with the aforementioned Bronco from the post. There are some things she will never understand I suppose.
Even in this case, you are the one worrying about feeding him. You ordered the takeout, not him.
OP, some women grow up in homes where there are no emotions shown, especially from fathers and these women associate that with being better and stronger. This is far from the truth. Your partner will not change, but rather grow to resent you for being sensitive. This will get worse and not better. You cannot change her. Find someone that you can bond with better.
Some people are higher on the sensitivity spectrum and find it easier to feel their emotions. It is also a strength, because it means that you process sensory input at a more complicated level. This shows up as a net positive in your life, if you let it.
As someone with similar traits. Just as an example, it has made me a more capable father, being able to empathise with my children's feelings. Talk them down from tantrums and generally show up on a deep emotional level.
You need a partner that loves this about you, not one that dislikes it. When you find that person, it will be like night and day.
The chances that your kids will be like you is high and imagine how she would treat the kids.
Do yourself a favour and find someone more compatible. For your sake and hers. She can have her emotionless dud and you can find a girl that cherishes the deep emotional connection you are capable of.
You made the classic rookie error of hiring a very hot PA. Never hire a hard PA.