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Date: October 24, 2022
I only got a third through this post and wondered why you were posting it.
Sounds like it's more than his lack of motivation. More like he drains the energy from you and you've outgrown the relationship
They are explanations but not excuses! Also he has shown himself to be a liar and untrustworthy so how do you know it's even true? You simply cannot be with someone who has cheated on you – you will never be able to trust them and you absolutely need that trust for a healthy relationship.
I can’t really afford to suffer the cost of losing it, soo I’m still going and because I paid for the flights, and he paid for the hotel he wants to be there too.
Sunk cost fallacy. You have already paid for the flights. You will be miserable on that vacation. You need to break up with him, the vacation is not as important as your happiness. Tell him it's over and ask if he wants to take his brother or a friend on the vacation and they reimburse you.
Simply tell him you won't adjust to them, and there are only 3 ways forward:
They will adjust to you, which means you will online EXACTLY, like you have been, and they will be grateful they are even being hosted.
They will have to live elsewhere
You will break up, because he is willing to make you muserable to please his parents, while it should the opposite, considering you online there with him.
OP you should probably run. If your partner is making you miserable for their family it is gigantic red flag. Do not let yourself be made miserable, and refuse to concede to garbage social norms from other culture.
My advice is there is no point in digging further if you don't yet know what you'll do if you find what you suspect you'll find.
You find proof of an emotional affair but none of a physical affair – what will you do?
You find proof it's both – is the plan different?
If she asks to do counseling – will that change your plan?