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Date: October 8, 2022
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I think you meant DENNIS
I think I missed all the tiny red flags that my husband saw, which is why I didn't see this coming.
Why tiny red flags? I get your point of view about everything but clearly you missed ALOT of things about the relationship from Sage and Rose over the years… you even said it your self… all your family seemed to knew about it, you maybe was trying hard to not see it.
Theraphy and I hope you can get past this and not lose your family.
Info: who puts baby girl back to sleep after you wake her up?
This sounds super normal tbh; I have a therapist, and she will text me reminders and include a thoughtful message, and has also said in emergencies that I can contact her. We also regularly go over sessions unless she has a patient directly waiting after. I think therapists (considering they are human after all) can grow to care for their patients. But even if she did have a crush, she would be completely trashing her career because it’s not like she would be allowed to date a patient even if the therapy ended.
Also, based on your below comments of how your husband’s therapist phrased the divorce comment, that seemed fairly normal too. Literally nothing you’ve mentioned strikes me as odd, and I’ve seen a couple different therapists since I was a kid.
In all this, you should also think what exactly is hurting you.
If there was more than a kiss, if it was a continuous affair, that's one thing. But if she was drunk, and made a questionable move, are you so inflexible to think that demonstrates her nature?
If anything can make people do questionable stuff, drink is right at the top of the list. Drunk people drive unsafely, piss and defecate in public, yell, scream, get into public fights. All that doesn't say that they are inherently public-defector or whatever. It means that they should control or stop their drinking.
Are you hurt because she drank so much that she forgot herself? Or is that single kiss itself the main pill of poison? You both have a long history, and you seem to have a lot of feelings for her. Why would a single kiss destroy that?
Would you have taken the same stance if instead, she had done one of the other things, like say she had had an accident while driving drunk? That's not an unrelated question – it would be just as much a result of drinking as that kiss, and has just the same emotional quotient to it: none. The kiss does not signify she loves you less. It only shows she should stay away from drinking.
On the other hand, if all this has made you realize your love for her is gone, then probably this breakup was long time coming and the kiss was just the last straw. In that case you should be more honest with her, and with yourself.
That man is 100% abusive.
Frankly I wouldn't be ok with my partner exploring at all because to me “exploring” is cheating. And cheating is an automatic end.
Give yourself permission to grieve. Socialize with friends, get exercise the only true cure is time.
I'm glad you can still talk to your brother but you definitely should cut out your family. They should have seen the red flags before. Your sister isn't well but you can't save her. Maybe someday she will realise he is awful and leave.
How about couples counseling.
Well, it just happened… Time to get off my face
You can’t be in this relationship if you want to be intimate with others for money. No amount of money is worth sticking with someone like you, who doesn’t give a shit about your partner of 4 years. You have pressured and forced your will on to her and it’s disgusting. It’s borderline abusive
I am experiencing something similar but with my wife where she said she no longer finds me attractive. It is difficult. I guess it requires deciding what is important in your relationship.
Don’t wait for him even coming back begging for your love. He has shown you he is not trustworthy. You were two days ago making plans for a future together and do he change his mind just in hours? No…. He knew when talking that you wouldn’t be together sooner or later, but he was already painting castles in the sky with you. It wouldn’t be surprising that he already were hooking.
Ouch, that sucks, I’m sorry. I definitely see that as a rejection—since he seemed into you, though, maybe he wanted to be FWBs. Depending on your feelings towards that, that could be a good or a bad thing. Either way, I’d talk to your friends about it! I highly doubt that they’ll cringe or judge you and it’ll feel good to get it out.