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Date: March 31, 2023
You were only sleeping together but he was jealous and you were head over heels for him?
Was he sleeping with anyone else? Because your answer lies in the answer to that.
I find it incredibly suspicious you seem to have hidden the fact that you were sleeping with others and even said in your post this was the part you were scared about telling him.
Seems like you know exactly the sort of relationship you two were in but only you didn't want to be exclusive, and then you didn't tell him (if he thought you were exclusive, this is called “cheating on him for 4 years”). But once again, if he was also sleeping around then he is deeply hypocritical and doesn't have the right to get angry here.
If the answer to the above is as I expect, I don't think you'll be open about it on a public forum like Reddit. So, in advance, my advice is to ponder on and try to understand how you hurt him and come to terms with the fact that what you did was hugely betraying and mean.
If he's just a hypocrite, break up with him because he has no right to shame you for activities he also participated in at the time.
Right, so I'd say if you're worried about telling friends, that can usually be a sign your own gut isn't sure – listen to that.
I'm not saying it could never work, but I will say this – ten years ago, he could have still had a child your age. Between leaving school and uni or the first few years of working, your brain changes so, so much. Even two or three situationships or one long term thing with someone at the same life stage will show you so much about what you want or need in a relationship. When there's a power imbalance (he might have his own house, more disposable income, general life experience), there's a risk the other person will believe the other person knows better or has more of a say.
Take it really slowly, remain fiercely independent, DO tell your friends if you want to give it a go.
Write down your own personal non-negotiables now and stick to them unless you decide to change them for your benefit – don't let him persuade you that they stem from a lack of experience.
Now I've been a massive nag, be safe and good luck ?
Yes. She shouldn't have to change her schedule like others are suggesting. That's ridiculous
I don't know how good i'd call that partnership, if she's meeting up with that “friend” again.
This is so similar to how my rape went down, only my rapist stopped once he realized I was crying (I assume this broke the delusion/illusion that he wasn't doing anything wrong). We didn't talk about it for years, just kept on with our crummy non-relationship. When I finally brought it up, and he finally admitted it was rape, I cried, I asked him why. His answer was an unsatisfying mix of “I was in a bad mood” and “I wasn't done”.
Please, please don't let him talk his way out of this. Don't talk yourself out of this. This was rape, and no matter how much you push it down, even if you get him to see your side, he will always be a man that raped you.
I am so sorry you went through this.