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Blue balls? What? No, he is fine. If he needs to he can take care of himself later. He sounds like a respectful dude — he knows you're not ready and he's not starting anything he can't handle. Speaking as someone raising a toddler, if my husband was gonna collapse in agony and suffering every time our sex gets interrupted I'd be a widow.
I was in a similar situation. Never dated, Christian background, had recently decided I didn't need to practice abstinence. My then-boyfriend-now-husband had dated several people before and had had plenty of sex. (Well, plenty compared to zero.)
I was open about the fact I wasn't ready, but was also upfront that I wasn't planning to wait until marriage either. He was perfectly fine with it. Every new “boundary,” he asked about. If I wasn't ready for something, he waited until I let him know. Took me 2 or 3 months to feel ready for sex, I think.
Just keep an open stream of communication. Talk about sex. There's plenty of things you can slowly introduce to build intimancy without jumping straight to full on sex. Talk about your anxieties and residual guilt. Get your contraception plans sorted. Take your journey day by day.
Thank you! I have friends who are swingers, and even if they’d approached once then declined, as long as they accepted “no”, I’d be fine with them as neighbors. Better than the lady next door whose dogs are barking in her yard 24/7 who only talks about Trump and how vaccines will kill us all.
You need to decide for yourself if that’s something you want to on-line with. Having different baby moms is often a conflict situation. Financially, emotionally and time-wise.
He didn’t know of this kid so he isn’t to blame, but this doesn’t mean you need to be ok with it.
Your daughter will have the guestroom when you move in, because she will then live there. Till then she is a guest, just like his stepson. Unfortunately (for your daughter) his stepson takes precedence over your daughter, which is understandable because he has been in their lives longer than you and your daughter.
I mean, most of the things you describe Melanie doing are not flirtatious at all. She shares a snack with you when she's working a shift with you? She wants her kid to make a new friend? O.k? Retail work is usually an environment when you make friends with your coworkers, right?
The only iffy thing is telling you about her bad relationship and asking for advice. That could lead to more emotional intimacy than you would want.
If Zelda is going through some mental difficulties at the moment and thinks you're about to leave her for Melanie, then you have bigger problems to focus on. If you want to be considerate and pull back from the friendship with Melanie, that's an option, but just recognize you can't do that forever. Men and women are allowed to be friends and your wife is going to have to figure out how to deal with her irrational feelings. Focus on building trust between the two of you.
Ooooof, sounds like someone has got a boatload of childhood trauma they aren’t aware of yet.
Aka: like someone who was regularly scolded or otherwise shamed for pooping. And if someone is treating a child like that, there’s no way that’s the only mistreatment they subjected her to.
It sounds like the cons outweigh the pros in this relationship, time to move on and make it stick. Make a list of everything bad and when you get the urge to go back read that list.
Also 5'10″ here, my wife doesn't care how much I weigh. I have been a coked out 120lbs, a fat ass 240, and am now 185lbs of muscle. She supported me through everything and never once called me “disgusting”. I suggest you seek counseling and you should probably try a steak and beans diet. For me, I eat meat and beans mostly, I do smoke so that seems to trim the fat in a very unhealthy way, and the manual labor takes care of the muscle. Good luck amigo, chances are she is just bad at communicating, be patient and try your best to talk it out.
Blue balls? What? No, he is fine. If he needs to he can take care of himself later. He sounds like a respectful dude — he knows you're not ready and he's not starting anything he can't handle. Speaking as someone raising a toddler, if my husband was gonna collapse in agony and suffering every time our sex gets interrupted I'd be a widow.
I was in a similar situation. Never dated, Christian background, had recently decided I didn't need to practice abstinence. My then-boyfriend-now-husband had dated several people before and had had plenty of sex. (Well, plenty compared to zero.)
I was open about the fact I wasn't ready, but was also upfront that I wasn't planning to wait until marriage either. He was perfectly fine with it. Every new “boundary,” he asked about. If I wasn't ready for something, he waited until I let him know. Took me 2 or 3 months to feel ready for sex, I think.
Just keep an open stream of communication. Talk about sex. There's plenty of things you can slowly introduce to build intimancy without jumping straight to full on sex. Talk about your anxieties and residual guilt. Get your contraception plans sorted. Take your journey day by day.
Both. Sorry my comment was half finished. Lol life always gets is the way
Thank you! I have friends who are swingers, and even if they’d approached once then declined, as long as they accepted “no”, I’d be fine with them as neighbors. Better than the lady next door whose dogs are barking in her yard 24/7 who only talks about Trump and how vaccines will kill us all.
You need to decide for yourself if that’s something you want to on-line with. Having different baby moms is often a conflict situation. Financially, emotionally and time-wise.
He didn’t know of this kid so he isn’t to blame, but this doesn’t mean you need to be ok with it.
You hit him back. He hit you first, but you hit him back. Now you’re both abusive. Get a divorce and therapy and move on with your life.
Your daughter will have the guestroom when you move in, because she will then live there. Till then she is a guest, just like his stepson. Unfortunately (for your daughter) his stepson takes precedence over your daughter, which is understandable because he has been in their lives longer than you and your daughter.
Have you two been having issues before he downloaded this app? I ask because you said he doesn't seem like a cheater…
To be clear i said no to the cutting board and gave it back
I mean, most of the things you describe Melanie doing are not flirtatious at all. She shares a snack with you when she's working a shift with you? She wants her kid to make a new friend? O.k? Retail work is usually an environment when you make friends with your coworkers, right?
The only iffy thing is telling you about her bad relationship and asking for advice. That could lead to more emotional intimacy than you would want.
If Zelda is going through some mental difficulties at the moment and thinks you're about to leave her for Melanie, then you have bigger problems to focus on. If you want to be considerate and pull back from the friendship with Melanie, that's an option, but just recognize you can't do that forever. Men and women are allowed to be friends and your wife is going to have to figure out how to deal with her irrational feelings. Focus on building trust between the two of you.
Ooooof, sounds like someone has got a boatload of childhood trauma they aren’t aware of yet.
Aka: like someone who was regularly scolded or otherwise shamed for pooping. And if someone is treating a child like that, there’s no way that’s the only mistreatment they subjected her to.
It sounds like the cons outweigh the pros in this relationship, time to move on and make it stick. Make a list of everything bad and when you get the urge to go back read that list.
Also 5'10″ here, my wife doesn't care how much I weigh. I have been a coked out 120lbs, a fat ass 240, and am now 185lbs of muscle. She supported me through everything and never once called me “disgusting”. I suggest you seek counseling and you should probably try a steak and beans diet. For me, I eat meat and beans mostly, I do smoke so that seems to trim the fat in a very unhealthy way, and the manual labor takes care of the muscle. Good luck amigo, chances are she is just bad at communicating, be patient and try your best to talk it out.