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Date: October 12, 2022
Just tell him to grow up and get over it because you are not putting up with his insecurities on such a ridiculous issue. If he doesn’t like it he can go. You would be amazed how not putting up with someone’s shit will correct their behavior. I speak from experience on both sides of it.
I do what I can. But people have a limit.
A different relationship, I do believe that they can change, but I don’t know how to get past that first curve of it. I know they want to make me happy, because they know I’m unfulfilled. They know but they ask for time, and I’m willing to give it as long as I see small progress along the way, which I haven’t been. And by the experience I mean the celebration of our love with our friends and family, we took it seriously but just not as seriously as others (we’re not religious or anything).
Not sure why you're being downvoted. This is spot on. I feel like people who have never been in this situation have a very hard time empathizing with the fact thay empty threats are abusive.
They threaten the safety and security of the relationship and thats not something you come back from.
Even if you really do want to leave, not addressing it im a calm manner and continuing the relationship anyways leaves it up in the air and stresses the heck out of the partner who doesn't want to end things.
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Society does not give men a pass, that’s complete horseshit. If anyone thinks that, they are vestigial notions from boomers or just shit people in general. Deadbeat dad is a routine phrase aptly used, but there is no equivalent for a mother of the same behavior because it’s seen as an extreme outlier. It’s for these same reasons that guys also often are ruled against in divorce/custody cases.
Pretty sure any reasonable person would agree that a parent out late getting drunk while young kids are at home is irresponsible unless some agreement/arrangement is made. I know plenty of parents that trade nights out occasionally and that’s fine. However, in this case you had a controlling spouse that went hypocritical and is ignoring the situation.
Theres no way this woman wasn’t always like this. She definitely made comments like this about other people which makes me look at you funny. She’s wrong but how long have you been sitting back whole she judges people like this? You’re now having a baby with and gods bless the child if it’s a girl bc she will make her life hell and definitely be the reason for a eating disorder. You basically subjected your mom to her and soon a child and it makes me wonder if you’ve ever shared her sentiments.
Aaaarrrg, why did you have to remind me?!?
Look, your wife is simply a crappy human being. How can shd call this woman her best friend if she's not even honest with her?
Sounds like she's manupulating everyone at her liking.
For what it's worth, no one (who's healthy) actually likes confrontation. It's horrible. But …it is a good thing, because it leads to change.
I can't even imagine being in this position, nor can I imagine having to make this choice.
Let me ask you though, what do you hope to gain from confronting your father? What chance do you want to give him? Do you want him to end things with this woman and leave your mom in the dark that it happened at all? Or do you want him to speak to your mom himself? (I would urge you towards this one btw…your mother does deserve to know, so that she can make up her own mind about her marriage).
If you're going to go into a confrontation, then it's best to have all your ducks in a row in advance, as it will make it slightly easier. You need to know what your aim with him is, in specifics, and you need to know what you want to do if it goes poorly. And most importantly, you need proof.
So the first thing I'd recommend is trying to get back into your dad's phone to take some pictures of the conversation. And then send them to your email as well, have them in two locations, just in case.
Next thing I'd recommend is to really think through what you want the outcome of this to be. There is no point telling him you're “giving him a chance” only to be stumped if he asks “to do what?”
And finally, plan for the worst. So…if he tries to lie, do you show him your proof? If he gets angry at you, do you tell him that you'll be telling your mom if he doesn't? If he just refuses to engage, what do you do then? It's going to be easier to handle in the moment, if you have already decided what to do.
Now…I guess the only other thing I have to say, is that you need to understand that your mother does deserve to know that he's stepped out in her. I can promise you, people deserve to know if their partner is unfaithful, because they deserve to make their own mind up about what they do or do not accept in their relationships. If I knew my partner had cheated on me, even if it was only once, I would end the relationship instantly. And I'm not saying that to scare you, I'm telling you that because it's about self respect. I respect myself too much to tolerate being lied to, exposed to STDs, and have my marriage vows decimated. I deserve a partner who respects me…and so does your mother. So I would strongly recommend that your goal of confronting your father, be that he tells your mother himself.
That's insanely sensitive. Are you sure she's really afraid, as opposed to pretending to be afraid to guilt or shame you for what she perceives as a foul?
This sounds so minor. Have there been other incidents of her overreacting?
exactly! the situation is different they if she just had an ex. Remind yourself that they are no longer together becuase he has passed. He's not an 'ex' and if they have a kid together, she will most likely be morning him forever.
That doesn't mean that she doesn't love you or her love for you is any less. It may be different, and that's ok.
Was your sister contributing to any bills? The way I see it, your daughter was basically supporting the entire family because you only work part time….and why is that? Why didn’t your sister get ANY job and allow this to drag on for months? Sounds like you both are leaching off your daughter and I’m glad she stood up for herself against your idiotic demands, how dare you demand she get rid of her car?? You just destroyed your relationship with your daughter.
Sorry, are sex workers not allowed to feel safe in their own home like anyone else?
Or genuinely, did I miss something else in her history?