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You’re in denial about your drinking. You abused him. Him asking you if you orgasmed and expressing insecurity about his sexual capabilities is not abuse and you’ve clearly pickled yourself brain if you think it is.
You didn’t have one drink. You weren’t drugged. You’re an alcoholic. Period. You’re also in denial about your place in his life and his boundaries. If it was as simple as you going over there to clear things up in person you would have done so already. But you haven’t because you got drunk and fucked up and you know it. You keep adding in unnecessary details about your accident in October (during your period of drinking and no doubt alcohol related), his health, his school, etc., and this is simply because you’re scrambling for reasons which would make your behavior an easier pill for him to swallow.
This is someone you knew for four months. Most people wouldn’t tolerate this level of drunken tomfoolery after four years, let alone months. Get a grip on your drinking and get therapy. You need it.
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In my opinion just put your relationship on hold with no expectations. If you find your way back to each other after graduation great. Maintaining a long distance relationship while in grad school would be exhausting. Focus on your studies and if you meet someone else so be it
So, 1. His rap sounds unoriginal and not very good. I can relate to wanting to be a supportive gf but also not being a good liar and struggling to pretend when the art is just not good. 2. 100% you do not have to be okay with the misogyny or disrespect in his music, even if you are confident he doesn't really feel that way about women. Women in real life, including you, are harmed by the views he's espousing and perpetuating. 3. If you do want to stay with him, it may help to either view his rapping as the same as if it were an acting role. The misogyny and infidelity are part of a pretend (hopefully?) persona he plays on stage. Or, you could remove yourself from it, let him know that the content bothers you, and you support him pursuing something that makes him happy, but you don't want to be involved or gear about it. 4. Stop hinting at what's bothering you, or making a joke of it. Your feelings are valid. “It is hard for me to see the person I love saying hateful things about women, whether you mean them or not.” “I feel embarrassed when you rap about having sex with other women when we are in a monogamous relationship. How would you feel if I was publicly bragging about cheating on you with other men?” I think if you want to, it is possible to separate his rap persona from the person you're in a relationship with, if you are confident that really is not a raging misogynist and he does respect you and your relationship. But you definitely do not have to, and whether you ultimately decide to stay with him or not, you should not be afraid to explicitly say what is bothering you.
I’ve always been of the idea that the couple needs to always put the couple first, and the kids will naturally follow. She’s of the complete opposite idea and will put baby before us, even before herself. I don’t think it’s healthy for anyone to do this, not even baby, but there’s no changing her mind.
OK, let's say that's true and he does have romantic feelings for you… do you not see that's even more of a reasonable reason for him to cut you out of his life out of respect for his actual wife?
She isn't some poor loser there to get your scraps and be grateful, he has made a decision to be with, marry and have a child with her, not you.
So really, we have two potential scenarios:
He actually is into you, his wife is sick of it and has said “it's me or her” (a reasonable position) and he's chosen wife (also a reasonable position); or You're actually a bit deluded, he's tried to let you down nicely that he wasn't interested in dating and wanted to stay friends, and you've spent years sniffing around his marriage like you're actually the chosen one that he is too noble to debase with pesky things like romance and commitment, and he's finally had enough.
As someone that gave up her virginty for a guy that manipulated me into unsafe sex (that I didnt even enjoy AT ALL), its been 13 years now and I still regret it to this day.
Do not give this man his way. Dump his freaking ass.
You’re in denial about your drinking. You abused him. Him asking you if you orgasmed and expressing insecurity about his sexual capabilities is not abuse and you’ve clearly pickled yourself brain if you think it is.
You didn’t have one drink. You weren’t drugged. You’re an alcoholic. Period. You’re also in denial about your place in his life and his boundaries. If it was as simple as you going over there to clear things up in person you would have done so already. But you haven’t because you got drunk and fucked up and you know it. You keep adding in unnecessary details about your accident in October (during your period of drinking and no doubt alcohol related), his health, his school, etc., and this is simply because you’re scrambling for reasons which would make your behavior an easier pill for him to swallow.
This is someone you knew for four months. Most people wouldn’t tolerate this level of drunken tomfoolery after four years, let alone months. Get a grip on your drinking and get therapy. You need it.
I wasn't raised a nudist or a hippie but I like to swim hot…. its super freeing and refreshing. Just feels good lol I'm sure most people would enjoy it if they didn't feel self conscious/sexualised.
In my opinion just put your relationship on hold with no expectations. If you find your way back to each other after graduation great. Maintaining a long distance relationship while in grad school would be exhausting. Focus on your studies and if you meet someone else so be it
She would be an idiot to stay with someone who's strung her along like this
So, 1. His rap sounds unoriginal and not very good. I can relate to wanting to be a supportive gf but also not being a good liar and struggling to pretend when the art is just not good. 2. 100% you do not have to be okay with the misogyny or disrespect in his music, even if you are confident he doesn't really feel that way about women. Women in real life, including you, are harmed by the views he's espousing and perpetuating. 3. If you do want to stay with him, it may help to either view his rapping as the same as if it were an acting role. The misogyny and infidelity are part of a pretend (hopefully?) persona he plays on stage. Or, you could remove yourself from it, let him know that the content bothers you, and you support him pursuing something that makes him happy, but you don't want to be involved or gear about it. 4. Stop hinting at what's bothering you, or making a joke of it. Your feelings are valid. “It is hard for me to see the person I love saying hateful things about women, whether you mean them or not.” “I feel embarrassed when you rap about having sex with other women when we are in a monogamous relationship. How would you feel if I was publicly bragging about cheating on you with other men?” I think if you want to, it is possible to separate his rap persona from the person you're in a relationship with, if you are confident that really is not a raging misogynist and he does respect you and your relationship. But you definitely do not have to, and whether you ultimately decide to stay with him or not, you should not be afraid to explicitly say what is bothering you.
He has to grow up and be his own man.
She knows that, and it seems she doesn’t care.
I’ve always been of the idea that the couple needs to always put the couple first, and the kids will naturally follow. She’s of the complete opposite idea and will put baby before us, even before herself. I don’t think it’s healthy for anyone to do this, not even baby, but there’s no changing her mind.
OK, let's say that's true and he does have romantic feelings for you… do you not see that's even more of a reasonable reason for him to cut you out of his life out of respect for his actual wife?
She isn't some poor loser there to get your scraps and be grateful, he has made a decision to be with, marry and have a child with her, not you.
So really, we have two potential scenarios:
He actually is into you, his wife is sick of it and has said “it's me or her” (a reasonable position) and he's chosen wife (also a reasonable position); or You're actually a bit deluded, he's tried to let you down nicely that he wasn't interested in dating and wanted to stay friends, and you've spent years sniffing around his marriage like you're actually the chosen one that he is too noble to debase with pesky things like romance and commitment, and he's finally had enough.
That dude is a cunt. He’ll say anything just to have unprotected sex.
As someone that gave up her virginty for a guy that manipulated me into unsafe sex (that I didnt even enjoy AT ALL), its been 13 years now and I still regret it to this day.
Do not give this man his way. Dump his freaking ass.
Maybe she thinks he has an expiration date.
Your reddit comments are public. Why should your girlfriend not be allowed to read it when any random asshole can?