This is key. Op is processing his refusal to help as if he knows why he should help and is choosing not to. But she’s the one refusing to give him full context for the decision.
It isn't about Olivia or the swimming girl, but about your bf. He wants to fool around, regardless of how it makes you feel. It isn't exactly strange in his age, given he was in relationship with you for last 2 years. He simply isn't mature enough for long term commited relationship.
You should break up with him. If the one thing stopping him from cheating on you, is your constsnt supervision, then relationship is already dead.
Do you both work? Are you doing your chores or not? She may be tired of being a bangmaid.
This is key. Op is processing his refusal to help as if he knows why he should help and is choosing not to. But she’s the one refusing to give him full context for the decision.
1) You can absolutely top that and should try to.
2) There’s a reason he’s an Ex and that she’s with you.
It isn't about Olivia or the swimming girl, but about your bf. He wants to fool around, regardless of how it makes you feel. It isn't exactly strange in his age, given he was in relationship with you for last 2 years. He simply isn't mature enough for long term commited relationship.
You should break up with him. If the one thing stopping him from cheating on you, is your constsnt supervision, then relationship is already dead.