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i just thought it would sound greedy or something
You did nothing wrong. You sound like an amazing mother. Just tell your son the truth thats one of the best things we could give our loved ones, i hope everything goes well and Respect to you for leaving your dirtbag husband after cheating on you.
You're welcome. And if you really decide that you can't be ok with her not loving them… I think there is a lot more going on here and I would encourage you to go to therapy.
You know the answer to the question but I'll answer it anyway because you seem to need to hear it: Yes you should leave. Run, even. He's cruel. He enjoys saying hurtful things because he knows they hurt you and later he says “it was a joke”. That's not the way someone treats a person they're supposedly in love with.
Have you never made a mistake and then asked for advice on how to fix it? Please don’t act so aloof and high and mighty, I made a mistake, I want to fix it by my actions and words. I am looking for advice on how to fix it.
no you are right in a lot of ways, and if he ever spat at me again i would undoubtedly leave him, but the situation we have built feels like it can still be worked with, we just arent stable, not to put him out there or anything but he needs help and i just want to be the one to help. i dont want him to treat me like this but leaving him and letting him treat another woman like this is no better at all
He is a disrespectful AH, who is still in-love with her and her life is being thrown in your face. I would also have to ask if he wishes that he was married to her and that those kids were his. Why stay married to a man that yearns for another woman? I would also ask to see text messages between them to see if he's emotionally cheating and why he can't wait for you two to meet. I personally wouldn't put up with this and I would really consider a divorce and I would let him know that, that is what I am considering
Don't even entertain dating a dealer. “I never mix business and personal life” should is a good political answer, but the truth is – don't date a dealer. In my bad old days, I knew many dealers, and even I knew well enough not to date them.
You are not a horrible person for disliking him getting fat or fatter.
I do think internalizing this as a sign he doesn't care for you is a bit misplaced. I would reframe it as his feelings for you (or anyone) are not enough to motivate him to do better. In other words, divorce yourself from his decision to remain and gain.
Is his depression being adequately treated? Has he always been flippant about his health?
You dump his ass. That's how you move on. Do NOT move in with him. It will only get worse.
no dude ur advise is horrible.. u just simply saying in relationship u should ket ur partner do watever they want.. like some fantasy hollowywood kind of love..
relationshio u need communication, trust and comprimise.. then u can be confident… OP gf doesnt even want to comprimise so no way trust n confidence in the relationship can be build..
so yes the prophecy is being fulfill OP already thinking of breaking up…
This is unhinged. I read this initially and thought they were in some sort of incestuous relationship, then I realised they were just hanging out.
They're allowed to, maybe they just don't enjoy spending time with you?
I have two sons. I have been drilling into them since they were tweens to never, ever believe a woman when she says she is on the pill and always, always use a condom. I cannot believe her boyfriend was so dumb.
I think you are going about wrong. Stop trying to set this up and just enjoy your trip together if something happens, and it's her idea fine. Otherwise, you are setting yourself up for failure….also.keep in mind what if she is into the guy more than she is into you and you get burnt….it happens….frankly you are playing with fire here
Bro, if she cared about you, she wouldn't have cheated, doesn't matter if she was 19 at the time. Not just once but twice. You're gonna be thinking about it no matter how much you try to forget it, at 25 you still have plenty of time to find someone who won't cheat on you.
It gets better over time the more you communicate lovingly.
All you need to think about is the next steps you need to take to be away from him don't debate with yourself whether or not it's worth it or necessary because at this point I think you know that it isn't working and it isn't what you deserve
I appreciate this reply. I wouldn’t expect my friend to because it could come across as disrespectful but she should understand how’s it’s uncomfortable for me.
I dunno, I just get “sugar daddy” vibes from the way you describe your relationship. All of it is common with either married men or players. They always seem perfect until conveniently they’re too busy for anything real (and somehow can’t answer their phone for you in particular).
Just be careful is all.
If you're friends with the guy then not only is it a no-bro thing to keep it from him; it's gonna eat you up every time you're with them. If I was him I'd want to know.
Is she thinking about going?
If she goes, tell her not to come back.
Don't get too caught up in the age gap. If you like the guy and are enjoying yourself its fine.
“They initiated it” is the dumbest excuse people use in these cases. You knew exactly what was happening and went along with it. You both sound incredibly selfish.
he can feel how he feels but for me, he needs to get his head round the fact that you can’t rewind time and change this. i think his feelings are valid but you didn’t do this maliciously.
is it a common thing for you to have arguments over conversations one of you can’t remember? has this happened before, where he’s told you you’ve forgotten a conversation?
i would maybe give it a few days (or you know him best) and then sit down and explain your side; it wasn’t malicious you can’t remember the conversation and explain you’re feeling whatever you’re feeling and maybe try and find some ways you can still have ‘wow’ moments in your wedding.
i’m sure everyone is so stressed with the wedding, i know things can blow up bigger than they normally would but once again his feelings about this are valid and so are yours!
Your comments helped me to look forward and feel better about it. I am not going to on-line like this anymore. I will be busy next week but I will at least go to a free therapist for young adults and see how it goes.
I sincerely appreciate you for reading and helping!!
I feel for you because it seems to me like he groomed you. He’s never acted like an adult and taken responsibility for anything it sounds like. He probably went after a 17y/o because I doubt any women the same age would put up with that garbage, now it sounds like he’s using you for your money and he’s sucking the life out of you because he is someone you have to be responsible for and take care of and he gives you nothing in return. And according to your post he’s not even hard anymore to make up for it.
Please leave him, heal, and find someone that makes life easier for you ❤️ healthy relationships are supposed to bring help, stability, and comfort. Not that