I probably should have mentioned that I’m struggling pretty bad with mental health issues and also that my husband is actually aware of this and is a great guy, I wouldn’t do anything to sacrifice that. I think this is just an issue of self worth more than anything?
Tell her to grow the fuck up. You don't need to remedy any situation here. Do not take any gaslighting or crocodile tears. You did a really great thing by taking PTO to help her.
But it's a minor operation and the medication wears off pretty quick.
It's not a crime, people, to say no or to tell people to fuck off every now and again – it could actually help with all types of relationships.
Getting crushes isn't uncommon and it means she should of distanced herself and put up boundaries, she chose to chase the crush and broke up with you, if you take her back she will do it again when she has a crush on someone else. My best guess they sexted for a bit traded pics and when she wanted commitment he said no. Block and move on.
A year and a half!! Whaaat? You're too nice. Boot, meet ass.
I probably should have mentioned that I’m struggling pretty bad with mental health issues and also that my husband is actually aware of this and is a great guy, I wouldn’t do anything to sacrifice that. I think this is just an issue of self worth more than anything?
how can you begin a lifelong commitment where you know your partner openly wished to cross your boundaries?
I won't be surprised if she's still sleeping with him.
No chance. Her opportunity was when you asked her to block him and go NC and she said NO.
I’m not sure how to tell him that I feel like this is a one sided relationship
Tell her to grow the fuck up. You don't need to remedy any situation here. Do not take any gaslighting or crocodile tears. You did a really great thing by taking PTO to help her.
But it's a minor operation and the medication wears off pretty quick.
It's not a crime, people, to say no or to tell people to fuck off every now and again – it could actually help with all types of relationships.
You stop having conversations with him all together. He has zero respect, so deserves zero of your time.
Oh fuck no, you are not delusional.
Part of being in a relationship is caring for and about your partner, and he does not come across as willing to do that.
I’d be telling his parents that you are returning him, then filling for divorce.
Getting crushes isn't uncommon and it means she should of distanced herself and put up boundaries, she chose to chase the crush and broke up with you, if you take her back she will do it again when she has a crush on someone else. My best guess they sexted for a bit traded pics and when she wanted commitment he said no. Block and move on.