Sounds like you have spent a lot of time searching for what you want in life while your soon to be ex wife has found her place.
From what I take from this, you have jumped from job to job career and career while still sound unsure you are where you want to be. You maybe want kids in the future. Your soon to be ex wife whom by your words supported you through this journey, is settled in her job, know she does not want kids, has a full life outside of her job with hobbies and friends. She has made it clear she does not want kids or does not want to move in with family or move into a rural area. But you decided to go ahead with this choice and seem sad after leaving her she is happy.
You cannot keep making decisions that affect both of you and just except her to just accept and go along. She cannot keep expecting her to go to therapy and start agreeing with everything you decide she should feel, decide or direction in life. She is not broken, she is perfect for the way she is. Maybe if you accepted that you would be happier with the decisions with what you made.
Move on make friends and try to jump into life you decided you want.
How long have u been together? Months right? Grow up. You both have your WHOLE lives ahead of u. She won't be your last and y won't be hers. Learn and grow.
I'm sorry you are going through that, it really sucks.
Its nothing wrong with either one of you, some people are just incompatible that way. That's kind of the point of dating, to figure that stuff out before you are legally stuck with each other. The good news is that not all guys have very high sex drives, and now you know to discuss that pretty early on in the relationship.
I’m a stay at home wife (I work from home but no set hours). When my husband wakes me up I go back to sleep or nap later. Sure, sometimes I’m irritated but he has to work. That’s life.
End the relationship. He sounds like a real jerk. There’s a reason the other girl isn’t with him. He is disrespectful to you. These are the honeymoon months and you’re spending it with a guy who won’t stop gawking about another woman.
That's not your girlfriend, boss. You're better off with someone on your wavelength.
I feel like that's not the thing to focus on here but ok
Sounds like you have spent a lot of time searching for what you want in life while your soon to be ex wife has found her place.
From what I take from this, you have jumped from job to job career and career while still sound unsure you are where you want to be. You maybe want kids in the future. Your soon to be ex wife whom by your words supported you through this journey, is settled in her job, know she does not want kids, has a full life outside of her job with hobbies and friends. She has made it clear she does not want kids or does not want to move in with family or move into a rural area. But you decided to go ahead with this choice and seem sad after leaving her she is happy.
You cannot keep making decisions that affect both of you and just except her to just accept and go along. She cannot keep expecting her to go to therapy and start agreeing with everything you decide she should feel, decide or direction in life. She is not broken, she is perfect for the way she is. Maybe if you accepted that you would be happier with the decisions with what you made.
Move on make friends and try to jump into life you decided you want.
I hope your partner does the same you oblivious toad
OP, just know that a day will come that your children will come back to you. I promise.
How long have u been together? Months right? Grow up. You both have your WHOLE lives ahead of u. She won't be your last and y won't be hers. Learn and grow.
I'm sorry you are going through that, it really sucks.
Its nothing wrong with either one of you, some people are just incompatible that way. That's kind of the point of dating, to figure that stuff out before you are legally stuck with each other. The good news is that not all guys have very high sex drives, and now you know to discuss that pretty early on in the relationship.
Do you have adhd?
I’m a stay at home wife (I work from home but no set hours). When my husband wakes me up I go back to sleep or nap later. Sure, sometimes I’m irritated but he has to work. That’s life.
So the answers you don’t then? Is that why you won’t tell me your age? Not learned to count that high yet(
End the relationship. He sounds like a real jerk. There’s a reason the other girl isn’t with him. He is disrespectful to you. These are the honeymoon months and you’re spending it with a guy who won’t stop gawking about another woman.
You are too old to be dating a teenager.
Sorry man, but you’ve been replaced. Get out of this. She has chosen him over you at every turn.
3 years means nothing when he's cheating on you and acting like a child