Yes but that is being perpetrated by bad clients that don’t want to take a shot while knowing the difference between sex work and therapeutic massage. It’s not wildly different in esthetics, but I don’t blame the establishments, I blame the customers. Guys that are ignoring the massive difference between a rub and tug and a massage therapists practice. Again, it’s not a reason to jam this woman up, she’s just making her money.
Especially since a girl in this age will have her teenager friends over. And they will also see him in nearly nothing. Will be funny if those girls tell this their parents, or teachers.
If they have a shared phone bill, that might be a decent place to start. I'd just be a lot more observant for a while and keep tabs on phone usage when the partner is around. There's no way this doesn't turn into something eventually. The situation sucks if the letter is true, but it still sucks if it's false.
As someone who was a carer to mum too- dump this toxic pain the arse woman. I know it can be incredibly lonely & nude to have a mum with dementia, but you don’t need toxic shitheads as a supposed partner in your life.
I made it a mission to find a good partner when I was going through it & so I got rid of anyone who made me or my mum feel bad. No regrets.
When you let someone speak to you a certain way, and stay with them, they will continue to speak to you that way. Because there haven’t been any consequences. You said you’ve told him in the past that you don’t like it, but clearly he doesn’t care if you don’t like it. There haven’t been any negative consequences for him, so he continues to do it.
Rather than focusing on him, focus on yourself. You’ve asked him to change his behavior and he isn’t doing it. So what can you do? You could tell him that you’re not going to play games with him and his friends again and you mean it and you follow through.
This is how I'd expect someone to treat a friend, not someone you're in a relationship with.
He's already going on this trip, to say she's got to pay half the fuel if she wants to tag along is wild. It's not like the truck is going to burn more fuel because she's in the passenger seat.
Her BF is petty and he also doesn't want her to go. It's not that he NEEDS her to pay, because clearly he's going to pay the fuel to go on his own.
My assumptions don’t match your assumptions? So we’re in agreement that this sounds like this relationship isn’t healthy and should probably end?
Yes but that is being perpetrated by bad clients that don’t want to take a shot while knowing the difference between sex work and therapeutic massage. It’s not wildly different in esthetics, but I don’t blame the establishments, I blame the customers. Guys that are ignoring the massive difference between a rub and tug and a massage therapists practice. Again, it’s not a reason to jam this woman up, she’s just making her money.
Why don't you visit them?
Especially since a girl in this age will have her teenager friends over. And they will also see him in nearly nothing. Will be funny if those girls tell this their parents, or teachers.
Also, I answered your question, now answer the one I asked you prior: why does the mother’s life carry so little meaning for you?
If they have a shared phone bill, that might be a decent place to start. I'd just be a lot more observant for a while and keep tabs on phone usage when the partner is around. There's no way this doesn't turn into something eventually. The situation sucks if the letter is true, but it still sucks if it's false.
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As someone who was a carer to mum too- dump this toxic pain the arse woman. I know it can be incredibly lonely & nude to have a mum with dementia, but you don’t need toxic shitheads as a supposed partner in your life.
I made it a mission to find a good partner when I was going through it & so I got rid of anyone who made me or my mum feel bad. No regrets.
When you let someone speak to you a certain way, and stay with them, they will continue to speak to you that way. Because there haven’t been any consequences. You said you’ve told him in the past that you don’t like it, but clearly he doesn’t care if you don’t like it. There haven’t been any negative consequences for him, so he continues to do it.
Rather than focusing on him, focus on yourself. You’ve asked him to change his behavior and he isn’t doing it. So what can you do? You could tell him that you’re not going to play games with him and his friends again and you mean it and you follow through.
I meant I’d resent it if he’s making me also pay, and manage his air bnb for free while not getting a cut.
Try using more than three brain cells to compose a reply. Go on, give it a go.
This is how I'd expect someone to treat a friend, not someone you're in a relationship with.
He's already going on this trip, to say she's got to pay half the fuel if she wants to tag along is wild. It's not like the truck is going to burn more fuel because she's in the passenger seat.
Her BF is petty and he also doesn't want her to go. It's not that he NEEDS her to pay, because clearly he's going to pay the fuel to go on his own.