Thanks for your response. The dinner or drinks idea is not gonna happen, he is only interested in sex, nothing more, nothing less. If I decide to speak to him it will be right after sex. It’s the only time we speak before he kicks me out to sleep. I hope I do find the courage and speak to him because I always feel very awkward and chicken out when it comes to expressing my feelings. I just want to get it off my chest and whatever happens. Anyway I guess we will see soon…
Yea I've explained to her that I understand she can't have a relationship right now and we could be friends, but the communication is very inconsistent so it's feeling very hot to even do that
Like I've tried sending music or photos of things she used to like but often I don't get a response when I try that so I've just stopped trying basically
My last message was on Monday asking what makes her feel better when she's down but she hadn't replied by Thursday morning and she has been on-line a few times since so I've just stopped checking my messages because I don't think it's healthy, maybe I'll check in next week or something and see if she has replied I'm not sure I feel I need a break too
Depends on what you like. People hit their peak at different times for different reasons. I see friends that look their best in their late twenties, while some people just never really took care of themselves and it shows when they hit adult hood. I'd say most everyone is downhill once they hit middle age though.
I personally don't care to even look at someone much younger than me as anything other than a potential friend.
You’re 23 and feeling underwhelmed in your first relationship. I think that’s reason enough for your anxiety about lifelong commitments. You go into commitments like having children with excitement not reservations.
Personally I don’t know why he even bothered to reply to it when he should have just deleted the email and blocked her email address as my view is a past relationship is a past relationship and it should remain in the past but wow I can’t believe that he replied with what he did. I couldn’t personally continue with the relationship if the exact same thing happened to me and my partner sent and email saying that and it matters not if they said no because they were in a committed relationship with a current partner, saying that actually makes it even worse in my eyes
How would you like it if dad f*cked you GF?
Thanks for your response. The dinner or drinks idea is not gonna happen, he is only interested in sex, nothing more, nothing less. If I decide to speak to him it will be right after sex. It’s the only time we speak before he kicks me out to sleep. I hope I do find the courage and speak to him because I always feel very awkward and chicken out when it comes to expressing my feelings. I just want to get it off my chest and whatever happens. Anyway I guess we will see soon…
Yea I've explained to her that I understand she can't have a relationship right now and we could be friends, but the communication is very inconsistent so it's feeling very hot to even do that
Like I've tried sending music or photos of things she used to like but often I don't get a response when I try that so I've just stopped trying basically
My last message was on Monday asking what makes her feel better when she's down but she hadn't replied by Thursday morning and she has been on-line a few times since so I've just stopped checking my messages because I don't think it's healthy, maybe I'll check in next week or something and see if she has replied I'm not sure I feel I need a break too
Depends on what you like. People hit their peak at different times for different reasons. I see friends that look their best in their late twenties, while some people just never really took care of themselves and it shows when they hit adult hood. I'd say most everyone is downhill once they hit middle age though.
I personally don't care to even look at someone much younger than me as anything other than a potential friend.
When it became a lot less possible to financially support that many children.
God y'all are gross and need to grow the fuck up.
He acted perfect at the beginning, so that later he could act like an asshole and you would tell yourself, “I can't leave him, he's perfect!”
He's just an asshole. You're the one choosing to be with an asshole. Just leave.
You’re 23 and feeling underwhelmed in your first relationship. I think that’s reason enough for your anxiety about lifelong commitments. You go into commitments like having children with excitement not reservations.
Personally I don’t know why he even bothered to reply to it when he should have just deleted the email and blocked her email address as my view is a past relationship is a past relationship and it should remain in the past but wow I can’t believe that he replied with what he did. I couldn’t personally continue with the relationship if the exact same thing happened to me and my partner sent and email saying that and it matters not if they said no because they were in a committed relationship with a current partner, saying that actually makes it even worse in my eyes