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Date: October 10, 2022
Well, as I said, I'm old and have a different perspective about “old irrelevant stuff” vs “old relevant stuff”. I get that you are lashing out at me, because I don't agree with what you did or think you need to do. That's OK. I've been married for a long time and I'm sure there is stuff my husband did in his youth that was less than wonderful – and so did I. Bringing it up wouldn't make us any better friends or lovers than we've been for all these years and would serve zero purpose. At this point in life, we finish each others sentences.
I wish you good luck.
It is the only right thing you can do. It is what you should have done from the start. If you can get over a crush fast you can go on with women that you like as friends but be really sure that its a friendship where you do stuff for each other and not something where you get used for attention and when you need her she is busy.
If you can't get over a crush fast you should get distance. I think if you can get over it you can go back to being friends but if you do not want that its totally fine too.
It's not a bad thing at all. You both don't want kids. There are many ways to prevent them. You've taken on the burden of birth control for a while, he hasn't had to consider it at all. Now it's his turn, he's choosing to not get snipped, so another option is REQUIRED.
Telling him condoms are needed is just the most logical way to move forward at this point.
The only concern I'd have… will each encounter turn into him being an ass and asking “can we skip the condom just this time?” I think you have to just be ready for that, and have your discussion prepared. If he tries to skip the condom even once, be ready to tell him it's condom, or no sex, you aren't going to engage in a guilt filled debate each time you have sex, and be subject so sexual coercion. (I'm not saying he's an asshole who will do that, just bringing up the possibility and that you should be ready if you think there's a chance.)
You get what you deserve.
You don’t need his approval. Your self esteem comes first. Don’t try to change yourself to please someone else. Self improvement is to help you grow as your own person.
You approached this from the wrong direction. Instead of talking to her about the photos and asking why she likes posting them, you automatically assumed that it was to gain attention. All social media posts are for attention — attention is not much of an answer to why she posts what she posts. If it makes you uncomfortable, you should've told her this and asked her to stop / remove the pictures without making it seem like she's an attention-seeker. Stating your own boundaries and asking her to respect them doesn't need to involve attacks on her person.
If it's a dealbreaker and she refuses to respect that boundary, then the two of you are just incompatible, and you should find someone who has more similar values. Try to reduce your own controlling / insecure behavior and work on healthy communication skills as well so that your relationship with her (or someone else) can be more healthy.
Bruh you told her she’s second to your dead wife. Fucked up. I’m surprised she’s with you.
How can you be a deadbeat if you dont know your kids were born? And if he is why would he bother harassing her now? Isnt that the opposite of what a deadbeat would do?
“I would never ever do that to someone…”
You did.
Psycho dad says “anyone except and atheist”. Child immediately gets with atheist. Who would have seen that coming?
My wife’s dad told her the same thing, he chilled out about it a little but it was always weird and uncomfortable. Good luck OP.
As a reminder, cheating is not the only reason to end a relationship.
It sounds very toxic, as if you have zero trust and equally no faith in him to get better. Everything he is doing is on the same tier and you would be way better off starting your exit sooner rather than later. I don't see anything long term left with this guy.