It’s only been a few months? if he loves you he should care that he’s hurting you. Instead it looks like he’s testing your boundaries. This is a huge red flag. If he won’t try therapy for you – “girl you ain’t changing him”
Show some empathy. You will be fine regardless where you’re at in life. Your dad feels some sort of responsible for any of his offspring upbringing. Your dad tries to provide as much as he can as he see fit. He have raised and sheltered you while his bastard child just wants to get to know his real father. Where is the love here? You want to be bitter? That will just carry on for rest of your life.
She was totally feeling you out before deciding what story to tell you. And the whole “misremembered” is classic. People like that will make you feel like you’re losing your mind and can’t trust yourself. It’s not fun.
Nah he shouldn't, this relationship ain't worth that much effort, she knows her friend is not happy about the relationship, so when OP keeps telling her about everything he says and she says she doesn't believe him, that's not on him to prove anything to her, the best option is to walk away she can go ahead and date her best friend who clearly has something for her
See if anything has changed in a year. He sounds like he just has codependency and other issues. Might as well see if you can find someone more stable, you've already seen what he offers.
Can you explain 'mostly emancipated'? How long have you lived in your own home?
You have never even met this guy. How many in person relationships have you had with peers? Has that been comfortable for you?
It’s only been a few months? if he loves you he should care that he’s hurting you. Instead it looks like he’s testing your boundaries. This is a huge red flag. If he won’t try therapy for you – “girl you ain’t changing him”
In 2023 it is okay to say if you are not comfortable with it and not fold under the pressure “every guy does it, work on your insecurities”
Show some empathy. You will be fine regardless where you’re at in life. Your dad feels some sort of responsible for any of his offspring upbringing. Your dad tries to provide as much as he can as he see fit. He have raised and sheltered you while his bastard child just wants to get to know his real father. Where is the love here? You want to be bitter? That will just carry on for rest of your life.
she's got balls to call you cold and evil when she shows no empathy for her dog killing a kitten
Good advice, thank you.
She does not respect you.
She was totally feeling you out before deciding what story to tell you. And the whole “misremembered” is classic. People like that will make you feel like you’re losing your mind and can’t trust yourself. It’s not fun.
You started a brand new job and were immediately assigned to the biggest client, who happens to be a flirty old man?
Honey, you were a sacrifice.
I completely agree, but I don't want to break her heart or ruin her life.
I'd rather be in an unhappy marriage for the rest of my life than break her heart.
You'll never find out that whole situation
Opportunist
Nah he shouldn't, this relationship ain't worth that much effort, she knows her friend is not happy about the relationship, so when OP keeps telling her about everything he says and she says she doesn't believe him, that's not on him to prove anything to her, the best option is to walk away she can go ahead and date her best friend who clearly has something for her
He has a problem. End it. He is so not worth it.
See if anything has changed in a year. He sounds like he just has codependency and other issues. Might as well see if you can find someone more stable, you've already seen what he offers.