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1. Does he only ever stare inappropriately? I often will stare at people, whether inappropriate things to stare at or just their face or their back or any place, and I have no idea im doing it unless someone points it out.

   So, on one hand maybe he really does not realise and is just looking for no reason. On the other, I think there is potentially something going on that needs talking about, simply by the fact that you are noticing it this much.

   This is an unusual situation, but I think after dating for a year you should be able to talk about any and every problem with your partner, even if it seems weird or gross or foolish or whatever.

   I would guess from his reaction to bringing it up that its either innocent, or maybe you need to make it clear that you arent comfortable with how much he looks at other girls?

   (Also dont judge yourself too much. Fashion is subjective, and there will always be someone skinner and someone bigger than you. Hes your boyfriend isnt he, not theirs?)

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2. You definitely made the right choice. She only wants you there out of convience for herself. Meaning companionship. I don't think that would be so bad if she was honest but she's lying about it to keep you there. Some people feel it is better to have someone than no one. However if you choose to work things out with her let her know you can't have a functional relationship without sex. People always say sex is not a big deal for a relationship and as a woman I disagree. Sex is a way to connect and communicate feelings towards the person you are with. It builds a special bond between two people. It creates a deeper intimacy and it's needed for a romantic relationship to truly thrive.

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4. You are being emotionally abused—this is cruel and hurtful behavior, end all contact. I am sorry.

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5. I wouldn’t do that. I’m mad but I don’t want her stuff.

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6. Your gf may not have any feelings at all for her ex — but she may be devastated that he is getting married first, or that she is not where she wants to be in life. Maybe she pictured being engaged by this age and now she feels “behind”. Maybe she wishes you would propose and she’s upset that you haven’t. Or maybe she knows you guys aren’t ready for marriage yet and she’s sad about that.

   I cried privately a couple times when people around me got engaged and my finger was still bare. I’m not saying it’s right, reasonable, or logical. I’m just saying it’s a possibility instead of assuming she’s still into him.

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7. I was going to say that. That or maybe your girlfriend broke up with this guy because he cheated…with the woman she's marrying now. The cheating might still hurt and them getting married makes it worse.

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8. There are dating apps where you can find a third you don't know. I would advice that if you want to go through with the threesome

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9. Thoughts?

   Grow up?

   She has to get up at the butt crack of dawn, make herself look nice which takes time, drive to work. Then she has to manage 8 hours of children who are monsters—worse now after all the quarantine—and parents who think their kid can’t do any wrong.

   She gets home, eats, and goes to bed to rinse and repeat.

   And you’re all “I want more sex”.

   Okay. What will you do to make that easier? Can you cook the dinner? Can you send her nice messages in the day and have sex before dinner?

   I dunno. I work a challenging job (from home but weird and long hours) and during the week, my partner may want to get frisky and I’m wiped out. He knows that if he wants to get laid he’s going to have to take over dinner or take something off my plate to free me up to unwind so I can get in the mood.

   Women especially tend to be responsive vs spontaneous arousal so you’ve gotta be in the right head and energy space.

   Welcome to adulting. It sucks.

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