just so you know buying a girl a £150 gift is a big deal. warning signs would of been going off in her head, as they should. she slept with someone because you dumped her. she probably thought you was fucking the co worker. tbh i think you probably was too.
you neglected your gf but spoil your co worker. come on that’s dodgy af!
It’s not about permission. It wasn’t an emergency when they had that talk and she said she couldn’t. Why didn’t he give her a heads up ? Communicating that is very simple. Frankly she should dump him. You can be friends with exes that is fine but why not give the heads up ? I mean if I did that to my bf when I know I could’ve just told him that’d be weird. Why wouldn’t I let him know ? I mean they were probably fucking a few months ago don’t you think its not wrong to at least message your significant other and be like hey this ex is taking care of me. The fact that he didn’t when he could’ve…. Says a lot.
Omg. Leave her alone. If she was secretly keeping a flame alive for you she’d make a grand gesture before accepting her bf’s proposal. If you do this you will 1) embarrass yourself, and 2) cause unnecessary strife in her life.
Flying to see her is a completely selfish move on your part and honestly shows that you have not grown in the way that you think.
some guys like to have the “girlfriend experience” without the commitment implied, or the monogamy. I'd suggest having a serious talk especially since you are developing feelings.
She should be really upset with that scumbag.
just so you know buying a girl a £150 gift is a big deal. warning signs would of been going off in her head, as they should. she slept with someone because you dumped her. she probably thought you was fucking the co worker. tbh i think you probably was too.
you neglected your gf but spoil your co worker. come on that’s dodgy af!
It’s not about permission. It wasn’t an emergency when they had that talk and she said she couldn’t. Why didn’t he give her a heads up ? Communicating that is very simple. Frankly she should dump him. You can be friends with exes that is fine but why not give the heads up ? I mean if I did that to my bf when I know I could’ve just told him that’d be weird. Why wouldn’t I let him know ? I mean they were probably fucking a few months ago don’t you think its not wrong to at least message your significant other and be like hey this ex is taking care of me. The fact that he didn’t when he could’ve…. Says a lot.
Omg. Leave her alone. If she was secretly keeping a flame alive for you she’d make a grand gesture before accepting her bf’s proposal. If you do this you will 1) embarrass yourself, and 2) cause unnecessary strife in her life.
Flying to see her is a completely selfish move on your part and honestly shows that you have not grown in the way that you think.
This will absolutely come and get you. Running and hiding from it will only get you so far
some guys like to have the “girlfriend experience” without the commitment implied, or the monogamy. I'd suggest having a serious talk especially since you are developing feelings.
how have you dealt with these types of women?
Don't deal with the women, deal with your own insecurity.
He didn’t know I’m still casually grab dinner or hang out with my ex.
You know that's called an emotional affair, right? You're cheating.
She's just mad you took away her dogs chew toys. Honestly move out and find someone who loves cats. Cat lovers are much better people than dog nutters
I haven’t ever been.
You…understand you can get a pretty firm grasp on how that country treats women without living there right?…
it’s just the government thats bad
Right…and they control every aspect of life, so like…yeah. This is so weird. What are you talking about?