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I wasn't thinking bars were where you should look. Like the apps, you tend to find hookups that way. I was more thinking about places where men take courses, do community service, and more constructive things like that.
Things like this are much easier to see when your heart isn’t on the line. You don’t deserve any less love and respect. Don’t stay in a bad relationship out of fear of the unknown.
Individually, several elements here are cause for concern. Collectively, they paint a very clear picture.
Most people that are 3 years into a relationship do not want to basically go out on a date (that is totally not a date) with an ex that they broke up with 3 years ago, just to say goodbye. I think the only context that might be considered acceptable is if she had remained close friends with this ex. It does not sound as if that was the case.
So she goes out on this totally not a date, and has plans to do whatever with you later. Trivia is over, she relocates to another bar, with ex. She agrees to a time to meet you, then stops responding. If she were on a girl's night out, that would be one thing. Since she is on totally not a date with her ex, and it has already exceeded the agreed upon bounds, it is a new problem.
You went looking for your girlfriend, as she was 30 minutes late, and not at home. If they are being honest, I think anyone reading this would do much the same. You finally find her, and she is in her car with her ex, he has the seat reclined, and she apparently looks shocked. Unless she was in the process of rushing him to the hospital, that is just blatantly unacceptable. I guess she could try claiming that he was choking, she did not know how to administer Heimlich, so she tried sucking dick instead.
Maybe you rolled up before anything really happened. Maybe not. The important point is that it was about to. She may not have started that evening with any intention of cheating on you, but that is where it ended up. Totally not a date with an ex, including alcohol, was putting herself in a position where the probability of cheating increased considerably. That is one of the main reasons most people that are 3 years into a new relationship, do not go on totally not dates with an ex.
I cannot tell you whether or not you should oblige her with talking tonight. If I were in your position, I am rather sure that I would just cut my losses. If you do decide to talk to her, you need to end the conversation whenever she starts the gaslighting. None of this is your fault, and your reaction was not at all crazy.
i’m queer so i don’t care about what genitals someone has.
regardless, he admitted to calling her names and yelling at her. in my opinion human decency warrants an apology. they’re both in the wrong here. she’s more wrong than he is, but he’s still wrong.
Oh ok, there are a number of reasons for it. Typically people just hope it works out. Other times people want financial protection while giving up work to raise a family. Usually it a combination of wanting companionship and needing two incomes for a decent quality of life though. The other reason is that people want to have children but only with someone who is committed to them etc. etc.
In general though people who are bad at relationships don't tend to realise that. I think the vast majority go into a marriage expecting to be the except. Those who aren't deluded are willing to take the risk which is fair. Nothing ventured nothing gained.
I remember seeing and responding to a post about this.
My advice would be to leave. He’s been cheating on you throughout your relationship and sexuality isn’t an excuse for that. I’m not heterosexual myself, but I’m married to a man, we’re monogamous, and if he pulled that shit I would be out of here as quickly as possible.
Chances are, he was going to continue meeting up with people. That’s what he previously did on those applications.
Of course this is considered cheating. When you confront him is your choice. I, personally, would be getting my things and leaving. This doesn’t sound like someone who is confused, at all, it sounds like someone who enjoys cheating. In your previous post you mentioned he gets a thrill out of it, and I think that’s the harsh reality here, as he’s clearly been doing this a long time.
watching porn and jerking off isn't the same as fucking other people.
What did he say when you asked about it?
You might need to give a sort of “ultimatum” here. Either he sorts this situation together with you or the relationship will end.
Opening a relationship born as an exclusive one is a surefire way to end it as well, so you might want to do that. It will solve your problem one way or another.
How many times does he need to cheat on you with live! women before you decide enough is enough? Fighting for your marriage depends on how much you enjoy living in a state of paranoia about what he is doing with other women. If you enjoy being on edge, miserable, feeling like you have to snoop, interrogating him whenever he is too late coming home, having no trust in him, being let down every time you catch him doing cyber sex with women after he promised not to do it again, then by all means fight for it. Oh, and you may want to make sure he uses condoms from now on as he also can’t be trusted in practicing safe see with his affair partners and you could wind up being gifted by him with something nasty or incurable.
I’ve made it quite clear if I find out anything else (which nothing has happened since the last time I found stuff) then I would leave him and file for divorce. And I’ve been adamant about that.
He either doesn’t care, or he knows you are full of nude air and empty threats and from the sounds of it, he’s right.
I think the real question is did he actually stalk you to fabricate your relationship or was that text message just a joke that he sent to friends after he happened to meet you by chance? Because I’ve definitely had moments like that happen (where I’ve talked to my friends about something but never actually meant it and then it happened by chance and I joke about making it happen even though I didn’t, though nothing quite like this).
I can see this being just a series of bad coincidences, but if you feel like this man even a bit fabricated your meeting, run far and run fast because that’s some YOU level of stalking and obsession.
I wasn't thinking bars were where you should look. Like the apps, you tend to find hookups that way. I was more thinking about places where men take courses, do community service, and more constructive things like that.
Oh how the turn tables
Things like this are much easier to see when your heart isn’t on the line. You don’t deserve any less love and respect. Don’t stay in a bad relationship out of fear of the unknown.
If traveling and spas were a love language, those would be hers ? that woman lives for travel.
Nah this relationship isn’t it sis. End things now
That’s literally insane!
Individually, several elements here are cause for concern. Collectively, they paint a very clear picture.
Most people that are 3 years into a relationship do not want to basically go out on a date (that is totally not a date) with an ex that they broke up with 3 years ago, just to say goodbye. I think the only context that might be considered acceptable is if she had remained close friends with this ex. It does not sound as if that was the case.
So she goes out on this totally not a date, and has plans to do whatever with you later. Trivia is over, she relocates to another bar, with ex. She agrees to a time to meet you, then stops responding. If she were on a girl's night out, that would be one thing. Since she is on totally not a date with her ex, and it has already exceeded the agreed upon bounds, it is a new problem.
You went looking for your girlfriend, as she was 30 minutes late, and not at home. If they are being honest, I think anyone reading this would do much the same. You finally find her, and she is in her car with her ex, he has the seat reclined, and she apparently looks shocked. Unless she was in the process of rushing him to the hospital, that is just blatantly unacceptable. I guess she could try claiming that he was choking, she did not know how to administer Heimlich, so she tried sucking dick instead.
Maybe you rolled up before anything really happened. Maybe not. The important point is that it was about to. She may not have started that evening with any intention of cheating on you, but that is where it ended up. Totally not a date with an ex, including alcohol, was putting herself in a position where the probability of cheating increased considerably. That is one of the main reasons most people that are 3 years into a new relationship, do not go on totally not dates with an ex.
I cannot tell you whether or not you should oblige her with talking tonight. If I were in your position, I am rather sure that I would just cut my losses. If you do decide to talk to her, you need to end the conversation whenever she starts the gaslighting. None of this is your fault, and your reaction was not at all crazy.
But she's aint messin with no broke- oh wait
i’m queer so i don’t care about what genitals someone has.
regardless, he admitted to calling her names and yelling at her. in my opinion human decency warrants an apology. they’re both in the wrong here. she’s more wrong than he is, but he’s still wrong.
Oh ok, there are a number of reasons for it. Typically people just hope it works out. Other times people want financial protection while giving up work to raise a family. Usually it a combination of wanting companionship and needing two incomes for a decent quality of life though. The other reason is that people want to have children but only with someone who is committed to them etc. etc.
In general though people who are bad at relationships don't tend to realise that. I think the vast majority go into a marriage expecting to be the except. Those who aren't deluded are willing to take the risk which is fair. Nothing ventured nothing gained.
I remember seeing and responding to a post about this.
My advice would be to leave. He’s been cheating on you throughout your relationship and sexuality isn’t an excuse for that. I’m not heterosexual myself, but I’m married to a man, we’re monogamous, and if he pulled that shit I would be out of here as quickly as possible.
Chances are, he was going to continue meeting up with people. That’s what he previously did on those applications.
Of course this is considered cheating. When you confront him is your choice. I, personally, would be getting my things and leaving. This doesn’t sound like someone who is confused, at all, it sounds like someone who enjoys cheating. In your previous post you mentioned he gets a thrill out of it, and I think that’s the harsh reality here, as he’s clearly been doing this a long time.
watching porn and jerking off isn't the same as fucking other people.
What did he say when you asked about it?
You might need to give a sort of “ultimatum” here. Either he sorts this situation together with you or the relationship will end.
Opening a relationship born as an exclusive one is a surefire way to end it as well, so you might want to do that. It will solve your problem one way or another.
Ok but is it wrong to fight for our marriage?
How many times does he need to cheat on you with live! women before you decide enough is enough? Fighting for your marriage depends on how much you enjoy living in a state of paranoia about what he is doing with other women. If you enjoy being on edge, miserable, feeling like you have to snoop, interrogating him whenever he is too late coming home, having no trust in him, being let down every time you catch him doing cyber sex with women after he promised not to do it again, then by all means fight for it. Oh, and you may want to make sure he uses condoms from now on as he also can’t be trusted in practicing safe see with his affair partners and you could wind up being gifted by him with something nasty or incurable.
I’ve made it quite clear if I find out anything else (which nothing has happened since the last time I found stuff) then I would leave him and file for divorce. And I’ve been adamant about that.
He either doesn’t care, or he knows you are full of nude air and empty threats and from the sounds of it, he’s right.
I think the real question is did he actually stalk you to fabricate your relationship or was that text message just a joke that he sent to friends after he happened to meet you by chance? Because I’ve definitely had moments like that happen (where I’ve talked to my friends about something but never actually meant it and then it happened by chance and I joke about making it happen even though I didn’t, though nothing quite like this).
I can see this being just a series of bad coincidences, but if you feel like this man even a bit fabricated your meeting, run far and run fast because that’s some YOU level of stalking and obsession.
Yup. Could smell the pua bullshit a mile away.